ok people i need ur help one more time. it's about my ex, we spoke some weeks ago, it was pretty nice the way we talked and everything. now he's not answering my calls anymore. he's totally running away. he does have a gf, but he told me they were gonna break up cause this and that. i just thought he wanted to show me like he wasn't happy with this girl. i know he still likes me. now i got he's cell number wich i'm tire of calling and not getting a response. should i go to his house?
2007-02-02 03:27:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK sweetheart.... i hate to say it... but this is something you are just going to have to walk away from ...... i know how you feel though ...... he told that we were going to be together.. and he was going to break up with her ......and now you feel like your heart is broken ... i know i know .... trust me ... its not worth your time...... you will find someone who wants you for just you .... and you don't need to be waiting on him ...... just leave it alone...... remember this though... if its meant to be ..he'll come back
2007-02-02 03:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by AlluwantfrmTor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not running away, he's decided to work on his relationship with his now girlfriend. He basically told you what he thought you wanted to hear. He wanted to see what your reactions where going to be as far as him telling you about his girlfriend. You either gave or didn't give him the reactions that he expected. How do you know he still likes you? In what way does he like you? He can just like you as a friend and you're making out to be more. If you're really tired of calling and getting no response stop calling. No one is making nor forcing you to call him. You're doing that to yourself. Stop calling him and under no circumstance should you go to his house. If he really wanted to be with you talk to you or whatever then he'd call you and come see you. He doesn't want to talk to you because he'd call you or answer your calls. Stop making yourself look desparate and chasing someone else's man that doesn't want you. He's showing you that he doesn't want you. Don't you feel you deserve better? Focus on finding someone that really wants to be with you and that will give you the love, attention and relationship that you want and deserve.
2007-02-02 11:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a player.!!! Don't you see that?
He is happy to know that you are available when is real girlfriend is busy. That's why he was nice to you the last time.
Break up with his girl? Wake up that's the oldes trick to get inside your pants.
But by the way you sound it's obious that you won't listen anyone of us. He'll come back to give you some lame excuse, you'll take him to your bed, the next morning he will be gone again. And you'll look on the mirror only to see a pathetic loser saying "I love him and he loves me".
2007-02-02 11:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,The only reason he talked to you a few weeks ago because him and his girlfriend was going through something and he had to have a back up person in case they brOKe up. Now they are ok and he don't know how to tell you that he really don't want you. Sorry babe you need to move on. Stop chasing and if he really want you then let him chase you. Good Luck and don't be no dummy for a man.
2007-02-02 11:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well aybe you went overboard with how much you liked him. No affense but when you become attached to a guy so quickly it sorta makes them worry and they don't wanna break your heart by telling you how they feel. SO they run away from everything. They avoid you. Which isn't the right thing to do. But just leave him alond for a bit. When you see him in person see what he has to say. Good luck and best wishes!
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2007-02-02 11:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this the wrong way but you sound like that movie Fatal Attraction , he doesn't want anything to do with you and he was just trying to be a gentlemen but being sociable to you , you really should move on, ha vent you ever heard of the stocking law it is a pretty series charge.
2007-02-02 11:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by apache672004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what? Start a fight? Look Desperate?
Look if he doesn't answer your calls it means he doesn't want you. I am guessing he told you he was breaking up with his girlfriend to get into your pants, just like a 100 million other men who promise to break up with their wives, fiances or girlfriends, just so they can take out their pet monkey and let it run around someone's bush!
He doesn't want you, all you will do by going there is lower yourself and probably start a fight.
2007-02-02 11:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by DECEMBER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, think of the new girls feelings, unless he started dateing the girl when he was with u leave him alone. why is it that the ex's always tryy to get the guy back when they know they have a gf. if he doesnt return ur phone calls he is not interested in getting back with u. if it is ment to happen it will give it time.
2007-02-02 11:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This cant be real.
On the odd chance it is...he doesnt like you. What on Earth gave you that impression?
Was it his current gf, you know the woman he likes.
Was it the fact he refuses to talk to you?
Was it the fact he is "totally running away" (from you)?
2007-02-02 11:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by jw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys don't want to be friends after dating because they think you'll want to go out again.
You have to reassure him that you don't.
Talk for a while, be friends, hang out. Then slowly but surely. Throw moves out there.
He just might get the signal.
2007-02-02 11:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by B A N D G E E K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋