with PMS, work stress, money stress.. all that stuff, I haven't been giving him all the attention that he obviously needs. :) haha He has been so great to me, but finally broke this morning and I don't know what I can do to say I'm sorry and show him how much I love him. Flowers would be lame, right? What is something that wouldn't be so lame to give him to show him my love.. You know, what are the flowers for men?
2007-02-02 03:19:54 · 27 answers · asked by T S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like all the men are saying SEX......... so I guess that answers my question! :) THANKS!
2007-02-02 03:29:19 · update #1
...in my experience with men, 'heart to heart conversations' aren't really the way to go. I mean, when I'm saying that I want to BUY him something.. it's because I know he will appreciate it. He knows I love him, he's just a bit of a drama queen. I haven't ever tried the "flower or gift" route with him and I just know it'll work.
2007-02-02 03:31:39 · update #2
how about a really big hug,and i'm sorry i haven't been feeling myself lately,but i do love you so!also a body massage might do the trick!
2007-02-02 03:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by jewel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't suggest buying him anything at all. That is lame - as you stated. If you buy him something because you feel terrible about the way you are treating him, then you should tell him about it. If you were misusing something of matieralism, then you could buy him something however love can't be boughten. I would suggest that you ask him to have a "heart to heart" conversation. Tell him what you have been going through and let him know that you have realized what you have been doing. He needs to know you mean it. One of the best things that I have ever read about relationships is the book listed below. You will see how you are supposed to love your boyfriend/girlfriend. My husband and I have almost no fights at all because we understand what each other is thinking. So, even if he does something against me, I know where he is coming from and we can talk about it without fighting.
2007-02-02 11:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tonya B 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I might buy an appology card and write your regrets inside, as well as how much he has been your strength. Thank him endlessly. If he likes massages, maybe you can give him a nice long massage to help him relax from the stress you put him under (although, girl, I know you're stressed too, but sometimes, to make things right, you have to sacrifice). Sometimes, I'll buy my husband a balloon from the grocery store. Ask to look through their selection that's not blown up. You'll never know what you'll find. You could leave the balloon and the card out for him to find as soon as he gets home from work/school. Good luck! :)
2007-02-02 11:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Heidi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if he is really a good guy, then flowers wont seem too lame...
But a card that says how you feel for the emotional part
and something that he likes... a video game, a movie, a new lighter (if he smokes), a CD of his favorite band, cook him cookies or make him dinner... just something to say I appreciate you being there for me and i have been going through a rough time and didn't pay enough attention to you but I do love you... something to cheer him up and make him smile... I mean guys who play XBOX everyday... besides sex nothing can bring them more happiness then a new XBOX game for them to play
2007-02-02 11:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by BeachLvr2006 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would take him out to his favorite place to eat - whether it's a posh restaurant, or a burger joint... whatever he likes best. And tell him what you've just told us - how much you appreciate his patience and the things you're going to do to make life easier on yourself and him. The promise - once realised - will be a gift enough.
If you do want to buy something, get him something you know he'll like - putting a personal gift into his hands will mean a lot. A CD by his favorite band, a book by his favorite author, something to do with a hobby he has... or something silly.
I recommend www.iwoot.com and www.firebox.com for boys-toys, but make it personal!
Good luck!
2007-02-02 11:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by Extra_Sweetcorn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
FIrst you should apologize and verbally acknowledge that you haven't been showing him the attention he deserves. Ask him what you can do to make itup to him. Suggest going out for a night of fun, doing anything he wants to do. Then you could give him a massage
2007-02-02 11:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Flowers wouldn't be lame! Put something really sweet and promising on the card.
2007-02-02 11:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
go out and buy some new sexy lingerie. before he comes home, have it on. have candles lit, wine, and some sexy music playing. lead him to the bedroom where you will rub him down. give him a full body massage with massage oils, and while doing this tell him how much you love him and appreciate him. then after that...i think you can guess what should happen. :)
2007-02-02 11:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just tell him what you told us. That ur sorry and u want to show him how much u love him. Im sure he will be able to come up with a way that u can make it up to him :)) lol
2007-02-02 11:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Xbox 360?
2007-02-02 11:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by DS 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋