It is disgusting! Yesterday she was eating crackers and talking at the same time, and she spit chunks of crackers at me. I tried to stop myself from gagging but I couldn't.
Is there anything I can do to make her stop? Without hurting her feelings.
2007-02-02 03:16:55 · 12 answers · asked by Jay's Mommy 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No, she's just talking, not yelling.
2007-02-02 07:40:11 · update #1
get some crackers ready. when she comes up to talk to you. talk forcefully or cough. she may not like crackers and spit coming from your mouth either. when you see her facial expression change, just tell her she has been doing this forever, you are just late at giving it back. don't have the guts? complain to her that someone at home or another coworker has this habit. maybe she will recognize her own habits.
2007-02-02 03:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by REALLY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wear one of those face masks dentist use. I was going to say you might be wearing lemmon or lime perfume due to the spitting but the crackers just crossed the line! LOL
2007-02-02 03:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bypass to Radio Shack and get a tiny tape recorder. they do no longer seem to be costly, approximately $50 for a physically powerful one. In Ohio, you may tape human beings without their know-how, as long as you're area of the communication. only tape her doing this, and write down each and every thing she does with dates, etc. hire prepaid criminal, that's barely $30 a month, and an lawyer will deliver out threatening letters for you. this could probable earn you some admire and get them off your lower back. i think of that's superb to chat up, quite than to no longer. what's your convenience point on the instant "stressful, from the opposed artwork environment". you have a appropriate to a secure and non violent artwork place. howdy, in the event that they fire you, you will gets a commission. in line with threat they're going to see you're no longer an straight forward objective and lower back off. despite you do, once you do arise for your self, do it in a advantageous, rely of actuality way. do no longer seem drawn to their reaction.
2016-11-24 19:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say something!-in a polite way if you have to! Is she talking or yelling directly in your face all the time?-I wouldn't put up with it.
2007-02-02 05:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters, DON'T say:
"Will you stop ******* spitting on me!"
Be tactful. I think they'd rather know rather than spit on someone like a client or a date or something.
2007-02-02 04:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by phangedphluff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight and tell her it doesn't work for you that half her lunch is ending up on your lap. Tell her or suffer, it doesn't have to hurt her, just make her aware of what she does.
2007-02-02 03:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by Roma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you really feel eventually she'll stop. If you say it as a lie it won't help you at all.
2007-02-02 03:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by angel2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha thats nasty! just tell her kindly that she spit on you.. it happens to veryone at some time...so take it easy with her...but dont let her do it again! =]
2007-02-02 03:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ lovely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know. But you could sit/stand farther away from her.
2007-02-02 03:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by artistic_c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?! What kind of boss she is? My goodness.....
2007-02-02 03:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋