My girlfriend and i have been going out for 4 months now. She doesn't believe me when I say I love her. For awhile now, she says that I have been acting like shes my friend rather then my girlfriend. What can I do to show that I love her and get her to start to believe me?
2007-02-02 03:00:59 · 8 answers · asked by Grant 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is a problem in her past....with men....she has trust issues...
2007-02-02 03:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you all have been dating a punk *** 4 months. That is nothing, you are still in the stages of getting to know one another, and I'm sure that you guys are teens or something retarded like that, and just because you really like her doesn't mean you love her, like and love are two different things. stop rushing your feelings and live in the moment, I may sound harsh, but read back on this in a year when you learn something about love and you'll see how right on I am. Yaaaamean.
2007-02-02 11:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start acting more like a boyfriend i guess. you didnt specify in the things that she says make you seem more like a friend, but lets analyse that shall we? lets see, friends are usually the ones you talk to when theres a problem, the ones that you dont french with, the ones that are strictly platonic (for the most part), the ones that you dont touch in certain places, the ones when your in public you make sure that people know that your just friends by not doing certain things, like holding hands, and grabbing the girl by the waist or putting your arm around her, things like that. and the list goes on. it seems to me like you've fulfilled the friend part of being in a relationship, so if you dont do much of these things, its time to fulfill the boyfriend part of it. because a relationship works only if the physical part (im not referring to sex) is harmonius with the emotional part. so you have to show her more physical affection like your supposed to be doing especially at the beginning of every relationdhip when you cant get enough of eachother, and show her that you are still vey much attracted to her. good luck!
2007-02-02 11:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with her and see what is she so insecure about this relationship. And find out what does she meant that you are not treating her as a gf. Good Luck!
2007-02-02 11:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Zimone78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her something nice for Valentines Day.That is if you are still together.ROSES OR PERFUME works all the time
2007-02-02 11:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
prolly cuz uve lied before and if not either shes denying or she dont love you
2007-02-02 11:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by evette 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to do something to surprise her every other 2 days
2007-02-02 11:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by J-dot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because either she is insecure- or because she doesn't trust you. plain and simple. men will never totally understand.
2007-02-02 11:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by Hanz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋