2007-02-02 02:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mmmh, well it depends on alot of factors, how old you are and what his attitude toward you is. The fact that you really like him is not enough: in what way does he like you? will he treat you with respect if he has sex with you or just see you as a ho? get an idea by looking at his friends and getting his opinions about his ex girlfriends.
2007-02-02 03:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by niko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a question of how many days, months or year before one can have sex with the person whom one wants to have a serious relationship.
It is a question of when you really feel the urge,both of you, and can no longer wait! Then you just do it! Its therefore differ from one person, or couple to another.
2007-02-02 03:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait a least 6 months. This way you can see if he is consistent in what he says and what he does. You should become friends first and get to know everything about him. Let love blossom and grow slowly. There is no need to hurry things. your young and have a long life ahead. Take things slow Good luck!
2007-02-02 03:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband asked me to marry him after relationship for decrease than 5 months. I popular through fact I knew from the minute I met him that he substitute into the guy i substitute into going to marry. He substitute into each little thing i might ever concept-approximately in a guy. So, as long as you're the two beneficial of what you're doing it incredibly is not significant how long you have been relationship. one greater element...we've been married for 21 years!
2016-10-16 11:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serious relationships should not include sex, But if you have to have it then I say wait a yr.
2007-02-02 03:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by roxanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you want...there is no set of guidelines to when you should have sex with someone....if you are starting a relationship then you both should should be discussing your sex lives...its part of the fun about dating...when your ready you both will know.
2007-02-02 02:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by LeiMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have sex on the first date, but you need to make the sex decision based on what YOU want to do. Have it when YOU feel like you're ready to and want to. DON'T have it because you think HE wants it, and DON'T have it to keep him, if you think he's leaving you for not having it. (If he's going to leave you for not having sex, then he'll leave you AFTER you have sex.) Don't have desperate sex. (Like you need to prove something to him.) Your sexual decisions should be based on what you want to do. A guy who truly cares about you isn't with you because you will or won't have sex with him.
2007-02-02 03:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a loooooooooonnnnnnngggggggg time. things are never the same when you have sex. if you wait a long time then when it happens it will be amazing.
2007-02-02 02:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as possible.
2007-02-02 02:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by DaddyBoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wait until you feel comfortable about you --- him and where the relationship is going
2007-02-02 03:10:20 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋