I don't trust my BF, but he swears up & down that I have no reason for not trusting him & that he is not cheating on me & that he loves me. He just started a new job & works 1-9p.m. on Tue. he got home at 10.30 said he had trianing, Wed. 11.30 training again, Thur. 3.30a.m. he aid his co-workers ook him out since he sold his first car. When he got home he was so super sweet to me after he explained where he went & how much he loves me we had hot sex all nite long. I woke up at arround 6.30 a.m. private call on his phone...he was sleep so I went through his ****, I found 2 condoms (he claims they were handing out at the bar) a phone number, Tina....., & he had several missed call by females on his cell after midnight, besides the one at 6.30...I took my appartment keys of his key chain threw all dat **** in the bed & told him to be gone by the time I get off work & he went balistic about y I went through his **** & asked if he would have cheated how could he have had so good sex with me
2007-02-02 02:55:00 · 13 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TRUST YOU HEART
IF YOU THINK HE'S CHEATING HE IS !
U DON'T NEED A RAT IN YOU LIFE
2007-02-02 03:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by johnc 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the training part is the truth. I have many friends who sell cars and it is hell for hours, there's no way to tell how long they will actually be at work. As for the phone calls and new girls calling, it sounds as if he has been out at clubs or bars picking up women. Or maybe they are new co-workers, but they shouldn't be calling so late, you do have the right as his lady to go through his phone, maybe catch him off guard and ask him if you can this time, if he has nothing to hide he will give it to you no questions asked. Hope this helps.
2007-02-02 03:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lee M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More attention to his appearance, excuses for a change in schedule, odd phone calls from other women on his cell AND increase or better sex than before is a classic indicator of cheating.
2007-02-02 03:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 11:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got a point. If he sells cars, it ain't just men you do business. With all the exercise you get from jumping to conclusions you must be in very good physical shape! So, being you can't trust him, find one you can and let him find a woman who isn't paranoid. Besides, if the sex is as good as you described, you shouldn't have to worry. Just get another man...you shouldn't have to put yourself or him through this! You two aren't married.
2007-02-02 03:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he was cheating to me!! Stay strong, and kick his a** to the curb!!! Perhaps SOME of what he said may have been true, but not all of what he claims is the truth. And if nothing else, if you don't believe him or trust him, then it is time for you to drop his a** and move on.
2007-02-02 03:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by dragondave187 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a disgusting pig!!! Im glad you told him to get the hell out!! He cheated and hes knows it what does good sex with you have to do with his cheating on you?? What an asshole yeah your intution told you not to trust his no good *** I know what its like to have your bf cheat on you. What a bastard!
2007-02-02 03:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have started something here by going through his pockets.but yes i would say that your suspicions of him are natural,and yes,i would hold my hands up.Guilty as charged i"m afraid.Dump Him
2007-02-02 03:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok. he HAD GOOD SEX WITH you but maybe that happened because he didn,t get it with the other girl. throw him out and give time to yourself.
2007-02-02 03:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had good sex with you and was super sweet to you because he knows he was GUILTY. Move on.
2007-02-02 03:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by portjeff143 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋