Pervy is often used on here as an insult - but sure it's fun sometimes - a little dangerous, adventurous, wild.......romance is all very well but sometimes isn't it best to be downright dirty ?
2007-02-02 02:47:20 · 20 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
exactly thats the word SOMETIMES. that sounds fantastic. uhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!
2007-02-02 02:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep...you guessed it, I am the party pooper...well, almost. Getting "kinky" is sometimes seen as the last resort of a lack-luster marriage, or to aleviate boredom in the sack department. I think I am a child of the great "Stereotype", I was raised to think of sex as special enough in itself and the media exposure of leather-clad people playing Twister on various torture devices was kind of a big turn-off...but hey, it's a free(ish) country. In my late teens I became a bit of a goth (By bit I mean I drew the line at eyeliner and womens make up...Hmmm?) and my friends were into "kinky" stuff...and I could't really get my head round it!
Lastly, I agree with the answer about word usage:
Pervy brings images of dirty old folk (the flasher Mac brigade!) hanging around shadowy parks at night.
Kinky is more towards leather and tassles and hot pokery things...Ow!
2007-02-02 03:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between "pervy" and "kinky." The term "pervy" is negative and will always remain so among people who actually understand the meaning while "kinky" can just be a walk "on the wild side" and can be fun, healthy and good.
2007-02-02 02:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ruby 4ever 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will agree. And have done so. But your level of kink may be childs play to someone elses (vanilla, as they say). Experience tells me that going down this path takes great caution and control. It is easy to get absorbed into the moment until it is controlling you and not the other way around. Proceed only if you are willing to face the dangers. Many unsurfaced emotions lie in these pursuits.
2007-02-02 02:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Danna 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when you are in a relationship and both partners are happy then pervy can be good fun. all depends on the situation and who is involved.
2007-02-02 03:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by funglobetraveller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only use the term when an action is genuinely hurtful in some way and deliberately...
Most things are fine or at most questionable
2007-02-02 05:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to let our hair down some times, so what ever others call it,its is not worth bothering about
2007-02-02 03:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely! Great fun!
2007-02-02 02:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by Flossie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, I sooooooo agree with you on that one!
It's exciting!
We all need a bit of excitement in our lives!
2007-02-02 02:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by xXMichelleXx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree!
2007-02-02 02:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by monkey-nuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋