I've found that I'm around or bump into many other attractive people of the opposite sex when I'm with my girlfriend than when I'm not. I've also observed the same with my girlfriend too, there seem to be more guys around that look as if they could be with her when I'm with her. Why is that? Is it some evil test?
2007-02-02 02:26:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it may get you spanked, of course if that's what you into... C'mon has any stupider question ever been asked here? OK may be the 'can I be pregnant' but this a close second! When you are 'dating' someone it doesn't mean your eyes must be permanently fixed on ONLY her! Gimme a break!
Willy
2007-02-02 02:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not an evil test. But in a sense it is. This happens. And you better believe that it always will no matter where you are, who you're with, or how old you are. There's is someone attractive for everyone on this planet. It's just the way it is. Don't take it as a sign and look into. Trust is the number one thing that will make or break a relationship. Cause after love...comes trust...and that's it. To make things last there has to be good communication and understanding. If there is trust and a good level of maturation, then there should be a good understanding that you are with each other, and not those that are around you. There will always be someone more attractive than your partner, but they will never be as attractive as your partner really is (as a person). You're okay. And just know that you're not the only one this happens to...you just happen to be the one that speaks out about it. . . Hope my advice was useful. You'll be alright... Take Care.
2007-02-02 02:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by ForeignTerritory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at other people of the opposite sex may quickly turn into flirting, and from that you must abstain while you have a girlfriend (and so must she).
You may look at it as a test, but not an evil one. This test tells you, whether the friendship/love between you and your girlfriend is strong enough or not.
2007-02-02 02:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by corleone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ,this is really the road to bad and obsessive habits. It's never okay to look at other people especially the opposite sex when you are dating someone, it's a sign of immaturity and lust and besides,what are you playing a detective for. And no this is no evil test ,is just your mind running out of control.
2007-02-02 02:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the test of love and life. Yo only think there are more when you're together but in reality, there are the same amount but you don't notice them until you're with your girlfriend. Being with her brings a paranoia to your thoughts.
There's nothing wrong with it, it's human nature.
Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu as long as you don't sample...Both of you.
2007-02-02 02:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're ALWAYS more marketable when you're employed! Women always check out guys with hot girlfriends because clearly that guy has something women want! Same thing with guys! Whenever I wanted to find hot women I ALWAYS went out with a female friend instead of the guys! Women felt like they were getting away with something when they saw me walk in with a woman, only to leave with me!
2007-02-02 02:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 19:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you're in a relationship, you're more confident, which attracts the opposite sex.
2007-02-02 02:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by Classy Geisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman speaking I know the man is going to look, Just don't make me mad by making it obvious or being a jerk and saying something stupid. Because as that woman I want to know I am the most important person at that moment, and the only one you WANT to look at.
2007-02-02 02:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens. they always send that the grass is greener on the other side. but when you are on the other side, you look at other pastures. moral of the story - stay contented with what you have :)
2007-02-02 02:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by littlepurplebugz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋