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I have a really good guy friend who is a player. I totally know this and accept it about him. I enjoy our friendship and tease him about his many women. I have never betrayed him. Lately he's been talking to a really nice girl. I was encouraged by this, but now I find that he just wants to have sex with her because she is a virgin at the age of 23. He finds this to be a challenge and it's a turn-on for him. I think this is sick. She's a med student, deeply religious...just not the kind of girl he normally gets involved with. I have this girl's email address (yeah I sortof snooped). She's coming to visit him (she lives out of state) in late February. I'm really tempted to warn her that he's a great friend, but that his intent is to con her into having sex with him. I realize my friendship with him may be over, but this seems so wrong. Should I do it or mind my own business? Would she believe me anyway?

2007-02-02 01:47:51 · 3 answers · asked by Mitsubachi 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

3 answers

He is YOUR friend you don't go behind a friends back and do anything. Tell him what you think and tell him honestly not jokingly. Maybe he might take in. If not you have to mind your business. Oh well that girl has to learn. If she is 23 and still a virgin I'm sure by now she is not gonna give it up to just anybody.
Be a good friend.
My best friend did it to me. We are no longer friends

2007-02-02 02:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by candy girl 2 · 1 0

If you look at it from a basic primal point of view a man can produce more children if he sleeps with as many women as possible. If he is committed to one she can only give birth to one child every nine months. For that reason it is better for a woman to have a partner who can support her and her children and thus giving her the highest possible reproduction rate. This can explain on a primal level why women are generally more picky about who they sleep with and why most men will jump into bed with anyone. Thats just another way of looking at things.

2016-05-24 04:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it is not your business

2007-02-02 02:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by jojo 3 · 0 0

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