she wants to know ??
my mom says im not allowed to jump on my dads back (piggy back) whats wrong with it ,, what should i do??
it doesnt hurt him
2007-02-02 01:47:25 · 18 answers · asked by mobile auto repair (mr fix it) 7 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
That's a stupid rule if I ever heard one. If your Dad doesn't mind then who is she to say no? It's not her back! Some kids don't have that privelage! That's what Dad's are for!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-02 01:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by jaytayk 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, you are getting a little old for that, and with age, I am sure you are getting bigger. I would not per say (jump) on dads back. But, if dad is willing to give you a piggy back ride -and there are no medical concerns-such as heart problems, bad back, etc. then I say you stand on the couch to get on-NO JUMPING. And enjoy the ride with dad. To many fathers dont even give the children the time of day, and if dad is willing to spend even 5 min doing that, great for him. Dont make her grow up too fast, she will be 12 before you know it, and not want anything to do with dad. And doing all the other 12 year old things.
2007-02-02 01:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by bratzmom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See, mommies can be very over protective of their kids. If you are ten years old you are probably getting very big and daddy might not be able to support you on his back the same way he did when you were five. Now, it may hurt your daddy, not right away but in the future. Or even worse, you might get hurt. it so easy to fall off of daddy's back and you can break an arm or a leg. this is probbably why your mom doesn't like it too much. She just wants you to be a little safer and play less rough. Same reason why you can jump on the bed etc...
2007-02-02 02:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by leidy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with piggy back rides. The problem is jumping there. You are getting big enough that it could hurt him if 1. done wrong or 2. done without his knowledge. I know my girls do this to papaw when he is not expecting it and it has hurt his back. You need to always have his concent and get on carefully.
2007-02-02 02:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by chemrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sometimes moms are right. Even though daddy says it might not hurt, you could be causing stress to his back that he can't feel and later down the road have back problems. I say, talk it over with daddy, see if daddy minds and if he doesn't...sneak a piggy back ride in every once and a while when mommy's not around.
2007-02-02 01:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Jumping on your dads back whether it hurts or not can hurt him very much if its done the wrong way.. Also you are ten years old and 10 year olds are just getting to be to big for daddies back why not try other fun things?
2007-02-02 01:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by chkn_fur 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why is your mom telling you you aren't allowed? It's your DADs back, if anyone tells you not to it should be him. If he is ok with it, I say go ahead. I don't see anything wrong with it, it sounds fun. As long as he knows you are getting on his back and you don't just randomly jump on his back otherwise he/you might miss and one of you might get hurt. Otherwise, have fun!
2007-02-02 02:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh how i love to have my kids wrestle with me now while a am young enoulf for it
i use to do it with my dad also, its some of the fun times i had with him
if he is strong enoulf and has a good back,, i think thats what dads are for
if and when he and you get a little older you will loose interst an it will begin to hurt a little thain slow down a little
remindes of the song butterfly kisses enjoy it now while your still young and remember how fun it is when your kids are doin it
mabe you could ask your mom if she did it growin up and if it was fun for her mabe shell change her mind
2007-02-02 08:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by spdybyke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is right you are becoming a young lady and your bdoy is developing. Your daddy is aging and his backbone,spine may weaken. You will always be daddys' little girl but it becaomes akward after awhile. Your still lucky to get hugs from your daddy though. My dad is going away and i gave him a big hug this morning. I know he felt awkward because he said he didnt want to hurt me with a bear hug.
Stay beautiful young lady (p.s i'm 34)
2007-02-02 02:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by Support Breast Cancer Research 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with jumping on your Dads back but you should make sure he is tied down securely or you could hurt yourself if he moves out of the way.
From- Moby the brain repair man
2007-02-02 01:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by malcolmg 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Talk to them, maybe they feel as if there is something physically wrong with it, specially now in days. There's so many things adults have to be careful when doing. One persons form of fun, might be another persons form of molestation/ abuse.
2007-02-02 01:58:52 · answer #11 · answered by NitaB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋