i know a lot of girls ask this question............but seem to get nowhere like myself. I have dated like only 4 guys my entire life, im 20 but be turning 21. I know im still young but sometimes i think all guys are the same. I had boyfriends who cheated on me, who couldnt care less... Sometimes i think that marriage will never happen to me coz im afraid of having to suffer and live in hell. Are there any good guys left in this world..........i wonder or maybe im at the wrong part of the world...?
2007-02-02 01:34:17 · 9 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't look he will find you
2007-02-02 01:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you sound just like me. I'm 21 and had 4 boyfriends also. I used to wonder will I ever find happiness. But you know what at 21 we should be parting talking to any guys we want to later in life Mr.Right will find us. We need to stop looking. Girl get right with yourself and know that you don't need a man to make you completely happy. If you have a GOOD circle of friends that should be really easy. Because guys who know you don't want them want or need them want you even more.
Just have fun for now GIRLIE :-)
2007-02-02 01:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by candy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a girl, I know exactly how you feel. My best advice, girl you are still young, you are at an age where you should be having the time of your life to discover who your real friends are, who you really are, things you love to do in life, and just having fun!!! I would say right now, don't focus on finding Mr. Right, because when the time comes he will appear, and DEFINITELY don't worry about marriage now, like I said, you'll know when is the right time! Right now, focus on just being young, single, healthy, and HAPPY!!!!!!!
2007-02-02 01:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be in the wrong part of the world.
I met the love of my life, at age 56, from Bulgaria. I live in the US.
I got tired of American women. End of story.
Well, the message you can take from my story is (1) you are still young, (2) guys at your age ARE immature jerks, and (3) you never know when and with whom you will fall in love.
DON'T GIVE UP!
2007-02-02 01:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you so focused on marriage and getting a boyfriend? don't you know that men can sense when a woman is desperate for that kind of relationship (and will not pursue a relationship with you because of that). you need to find a way to take your mind off of it. hang out with your friends, get some hobbies, learn some new things...get a very active social life. stop looking for love...it will happen.
2007-02-02 01:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be you are dating the wrong type of men. Try a different pool of men. You know that nice guy you didn't go out with? Well he's probably the one you are looking for.
2007-02-02 01:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about mr.right but a guy will come along and sweep you off your feet , most likely when u least expect him.
i agree with u good guys are hard to find. or at it seems that way but i'm positive you will find your mate in due time, afterall whats your rush, you're still young.
2007-02-02 01:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by ~muffun~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, we both in the same situation, sometimes life is not fair but i hope you find someone because i know it hurts.
2007-02-02 01:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably won't find "Mr. Right" but you will find "Mr. I guess I'll settle for you because there are no Mr. Rights".
2007-02-02 01:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by Lynne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋