my exhusbands cousin wants to start dating me but i have feelings for a guy that ive been seeing off and on for five years. ive tried telling him that i really didnt want a relationship with him because he was to much like my ex and i couldnt deal with it. i finally told the one that i have been seeing for five years how i feel and at first he wouldnt talk to me but know we talk all the time. i truely dont know what the hell to do. PLEASE HELP
2007-02-02 01:32:36 · 12 answers · asked by skilarnicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to take a break from relationships until you get your head together.Have a relationship with yourself (mind, spirit etc..).let the divorce get final and get to know yourself again before you fall into another relationship.Because the 2 guy's you speak of here just seems to me that you think you have to be in a relationship to feel whole it doesn't sound like your in love and you don't have to be in a relationship to find happiness. It will happen for you one day just don't try to force it. once you love you then you will find Mr. Right can love you the way you deserve to be loved.
Good Luck
2007-02-02 01:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So in the adventure that your uncle is your mom's sister, then is your mom your uncle's brother? besides, in some states it would desire to be a criminal offense, so only be sure which you do are not breaking any regulations there. otherwise, i'm hoping you get married. do not finally end up on the Jerry Springer instruct or something like that nevertheless. the thought that incest leads to start defects is fake. It has a miles better probability of bringing out recessive features, and that's it. some recessive features might desire to deliver approximately a disease, yet this might take place while unrelated human beings take place to share the comparable recessive features, so do not concern approximately it. to boot, for now considering which you're only relationship, like going out to work out a movie and stuff, what's the enormous deal in that? it is not such as you're fornicating or something. it is only solid family individuals relaxing.
2016-09-28 07:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by barile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live in Kentucky, Arkansas or West Virginia where everybody knows everybody cause they are all related? Tell your ex's husband cousin to leave you the hell alone and move on with your life and far away from anyone that is related through marriage or otherwise.
2007-02-02 01:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you admit right here online that you've been dating a guy off and on for the last 5 years while you were still married. Does your soon-to-be ex-husband (and his attorney) already know that?
Not the sharpest tool in the shed, are ya?
2007-02-02 01:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this same thing except there was no other guy in the picture. There was no way I was going to date my husbands cousin! It could have been a set up.I know that things have changed but please believe me people will use things like this against you in divorce court. This could be a set up. Tell the cousin to buzz off!
2007-02-02 01:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dating someone in your soon to be ex's family is asking for trouble. think about this: if it does lead anywhere, such as marriage, you will always have to see your ex for the rest of your life at family gatherings and reunions, funerals, ect. there will possibly be a lot of annomosity between you and your ex, and it certainly wouldn't be easy for any new children you might have with his cousin. i say shop elsewhere, even if this other guy doesn't work out.
2007-02-02 01:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by jason x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've pretty much answered your own question. Being that your ex's cousin has similar traits, you should probably stay clear of him. Not to mention it may cause some animosity between the two cousins...
2007-02-02 01:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by blamb! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the cousin once and for all that you are not interested and that you are seeing someone else. Threaten him with a restraining order if he doesn't stop.
2007-02-02 01:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so...you are getting divorced soon..then why do you want a relationship even if you are not divorced yet??
just get yourself some time lady..why messing up life like this??
you were already having someone when you were married..and now, when you still are not divorced, you are again ready for another commitment??
give yourself some time lady...
2007-02-02 01:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by ruprekhawati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that bad from your point of view but it really skeeves me out from the guy's point of view. Personally I want nothing to do with friends or relatives ex's. Yick. I do not want to know the last guy who did my new chick.
That guy is sick.
2007-02-02 01:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋