if i say this:
Sometimes i sit at home & wonder how it would be if someone had loved me, truly loved me, but i learned a while ago love doesnt happen for someone like me. So i go around & just pretend love is not for me. So i put on my make-up & put a smile on my face & if anyone asks me everything is ok, Im laughing coz no one knows the joke is on me but I'm dying inside with my pride & a smile on my face. Sometimes its hard, the pain runs deep , its not the life i would choose but what can i do if love dont want me, Im not about to sit around & let myself go. I've realized Dreams come true are not for girls like me.
(Tamia-smile)
Can you relate to this, do you feel this way or have you ever felt this way?
2007-02-02 01:28:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ure not de only one babe. there are tons out there.
ppl make love sound so simple. two beings falling for each other. but they forget that sumtyms, ppl may fall for sumone who dun love dem back. and dets when it hurts and starts to get complicated.
u feel happy looking at ure friends who are happily married or attached to their loved ones.ure happy for dem. but there's no denying det dark feeling haunting you and u end up feeling abit jealous of dem.
dets perfectly normal. dun worry. fate never dies. even if ure 18, even if ure 81. even if ure never married, even if ure married 4 times. God has given a special sumone for all of us. we just have to wait. hang in there
gd luck((:
2007-02-02 01:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that silly, Yes I do know what your going through. Love is for everyone. I can tell you this. If all you do is stay at home, then yes you'll never meet anyone. Something tells me thats what you do. So, somehow find a way to get out of your house and do something either with a friend or by yourself. There is never any garuntees but, you and I both know that Mr. Right wont just knock on your door!!!!! Best of Luck
2007-02-02 01:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by bdcolditz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most of us have felt this way at one time or another.
But why are you so certain that love will never find you?
No matter what you feel your problem is, there is someone else who thinks the same. Maybe you can't find it because you don't know where or how to look. What do you like to do? Where would you meet other people who are just like you? What about change? I don't know what you are like or what the problem is, but just about any woman can make huge changes in themselves nowadays.
Have you considered all the options?
2007-02-02 02:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams DO come true IF you are willing to wait for them.
Listen, I found the love of my life when I was 56 years old! THIS came after a divorce ended 20 years of marriage. You would think that I had more reason to give up than you.
SURE, I thought the same thing -- I will never be loved again, I will never find true love, etc.
BUT, you know what? IT IS NOT TRUE. Love will find you if you are open to it.
Just, DON'T GIVE UP! Trust me, I know!
2007-02-02 01:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've felt the way you feel. But let me tell you something. There is no such thing sas "Love doesn't happen for someone like me". I know it may seem hard to see right now, but I'm sure there are people that love you, or that you haven't met than will gorw to love you. And you can always count of Jesus' love.
2007-02-02 01:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by Biz 8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems you think your here on earth to suffer...not true alot of times if you think negative you get negative.. not only that it may not be your time yet to get the love you want because you don't love yourself first ....everyone deserves love and someone who makes them feel good but no one can do it for you .....learn to love you first the rest will fall into play
2007-02-02 01:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by kellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are taught, as little girls, that our prince charming will come along. But what they didn't tell us, is that he could come along...but he may not want us! I lived through my twenties and thirties alone. Lots of friends...and lots of people asking why a girl like me isn't with someone - which made me sad and angry.
But I finallly met him...just as they say, when you aren't looking.
Its worth the wait, and just please stop dwelling and thinking it won't happen. It might not...but you don't want to waste your life lamenting.
I wish you well...and peace.
2007-02-02 01:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not exactly like this...but yes lady, many a times it happens to us because we are seeing people together and enjoying...we feel that empty space in our heart since no one uptill now has raised upto that level and filled that space of heart..
dont worry..
you will met your true love very soon....
just be happy....you don't need someone else to tell you how beautiful your life is and start enjoying whatever you have achieved in life..good day dear...
2007-02-02 01:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by ruprekhawati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think most people have felt this way --- yes i have
i also saw some graffiti on the breakwall at Port Macquarie and i think its something to listen to
--- learn to love like you have never been hurt ---- think about it and allow yourself to be vulnerable again --- it is something that can fill your life with joy --- best wishes and hugs
2007-02-02 01:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand that you are depressed.. love is for everyone!! you might not have found your love yet, but he is out there.. and do express your feelings to someone you are close to, it helps too
2007-02-02 01:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by gone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋