shave her pits....strange thing is she has no prob buzzin the cooter... we have looong debates about it, because it grosses me out. She says she has a mole that gets sliced open when she does it, and it looks like her pit is raggin for an entire day. I say we can get that lasered off, but she says she has gotten used to noty doing it. What do you think?
2007-02-02 01:24:14 · 13 answers · asked by Twizler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say let her be. Are you going to dumb her over a little bit of hair? Compromise, tell her to at least trim it, and keep proposing this laser thing. Maybe get someone else to speak to her about it, one of her friends maybe?
2007-02-02 01:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Biz 8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally HATE having to shave my arm pits, but goodness I don't know if I could stand having hairy pits. Plus, that would be such a turn off... anyways, I don't know how you guys actually talked about it...you said "long debates", and it really seems that it has gotten nowhere. Maybe you can make the topic more serious like "Honey, I love you, but it really does bother me that you don't shave your pits, can we please try to compromise on something?" Honestly there are MANY MANY ways she can have the mole removed, and most can be done in like 10 minutes. That seems to be a poor excuse for her not to shave her arms, are you sure that's the sole reason?
If she cared for you, I would say she could compromise (after all....it's such a simple thing to resolve), if she doesn't then I think you will have to live with it, or if it bugs you THAT much, then don't be with her (but I don't think it bugs you THAT much....does it?)....much luck!
2007-02-02 09:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing that you don't go down on her pits. It's great that she keeps the cooter buzzed. So Smooth.
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2007-02-02 09:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by LiL EarlE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men love French girls. I say SHAVE THE HAIRY PITS, but she says no.......deal or no deal? That, my dear, is what you must decide if your girl won't get down with the razor on the hairy pits. Can you live with it? If so, suck it up, if not, tell her her either she shaves them or you will be finding a hairless gf to replace her. Good luck!
2007-02-02 09:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats unhygenic - really she should consider shaving it for hygenic purposes. the more hair you have there the more you sweat & eventually it starts to smell because the hair is covering your pores & not giving it a chance to breathe. Many men are starting to shave there also because its hygenic. to be honest most guys would have been grossed out & left her a long time ago. Its just weird & gross for a girl to be unshaven
2007-02-02 09:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's her body and she has the final say. if it bothers you that bad...then break up with her and find a girly girl who does shave her pits. she has a logical explanation for why she doesn't shave her pits. it's a valid medical excuse. if she doesn't stink...then why are you complaining? be thankful that she at least keeps it from stinking. or find ways of not looking at it or covering it up if it bothers you that bad.
2007-02-02 09:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness mess!!!!!... tell her to shave around the mole then cut the hair on the mole with scissors ...she needs to get rid of that soon it holds to much odor
2007-02-02 09:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by kellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well , if it bothers you then of course you should tell her , most women wish men could be more honest with us about those kinds of things, lying to her and saying it doesnt bother you will only in the long run cause you lose your attraction to her , its ok to tell your girlfriend what you like with a woman , and sometimes things like that can be a big deal. not to mention unsightly on a woman . so yes i think you should express your feelings about it .
2007-02-02 09:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by chelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put nair in her pits when she is asleep. Or I guess you could ask her to use that instead. Although she will still find an excuse.
2007-02-02 09:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she needs to do something about it because it's turning you off. Wax it, shave then cut it, talk to a doctor for the best option, but tell her that she needs to do something.
2007-02-02 09:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋