I have a boyfriend, But I think Im attracted to girls!!!?

Question

Iv been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and I think that I am starting to be attracted to this girl at my school what do I do I have never felt this way before>???????

Answer 1

listen u may be just going through an experimental phase. i remember a few years back, in year 9, i was in the same boat as u, i was sooooo confused, so i no EXACTLY how u feel!! i dont want to sound weird, but i've found that i do get really turned on by being with girls physically, but im not gay or bi, i would only ever want to be with a guy in a relationship. dont feel guilty or ashamed of yourself, cos it is very very normal to feel this way, esp while your still at school. in reference to your boyfriend, it could really be a major blow to his feelings as a guy if u tell him u think u like girls (imagine him telling u that he likes guys...how would u feel as a woman? exactly) maybe it'd be a n idea to go on a little break w/ him, or not its up to you, but above all be honest with him, and see how u feel abt the girl u think u might like. chances are you'll get over it, or it may just be a physical thing,and decide ur guy was right for u alll along! hope it all works out for you luv xx

Answer 2

It's not even that big of a deal for a girl to mess around with another girl these days. Your bf will probably encourage it. Maybe you could use this mentality to experiment with your attractions to see if you like girls more than guys.

Answer 3

Well u will never know until u try it. Maybe u and ur b/f plus the girl could have a three some and see how that goes. Everyone is entitled 2 there own preference. Good luck i hope u know what u want.

Answer 4

You know, both genders are beautifully and wonderfully made. Feeling the way you do isn't intirely unnatural. However, you don't want to let it go too far. You might want to get counseling, not because your crazy or anything, but because you might want help before the feelings become too strong. I know a lot of people will get angry at me for this, but homosexuality (and bisexuality) isn't healthy. I don't hate homosexuals, and I'm not a homophobe, but I don't think it is a very healthy lifestyle. Good luck and God bless!

Answer 5

You're just curious. Because homosexual behavior is more accepted now girls are trying it on for size all the time. Usually it's a phase and it will pass. Analyze how you really feel about this girl. because if you break up with your bf and then realize later that you just rushed into this and you want him back...you'll probably be way to late.

Answer 6

its rude to hit on a girl thats not gay but those feeling aint wrong just keep em to yo self becuase in todays society they will treat u weird and some people cant deal with that or just be fkit and do u tell your man u wnat to break up becuase you need time to think about your self for now if he loves u he will understand

Answer 7

Tell you boyfriend about it... and he'll help you find a girl that you both like... then you can both have a good time


(kidding)

Stick with the way God intended

Answer 8

wow hetero and homo at the same time damn u will have a very healthy sxual life iam a guy but i tell u that women like you will find more pleasure in women than men.
enjoy!!!

Answer 9

there is nothin wroung w/ liking girls it is normal and you just have to ask her or find out if she is gay as well and if so then think of which one you want to be with the man or woman. ;>

Answer 10

try it out if u dont like it then u will know but u will never know if u dont try. but if your boyfriend is anything like most guys he definately wont care, he'll love it!