my friend of 3 months who went home for a week,dumped me as soon as she got back into town.she said there was no one new,but why would our relationship change that fast.she is 28 and past playing games i thought.we exchanged x-mas gifts and her card portrayed that she was looking forward to the relationship growing.this all happened after she got dumped by a man she thought she would marry 6 months ago.you think he wants her back and she dropped me to go back to him.
2007-02-02 01:21:48 · 9 answers · asked by freckles6771 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women are just like that. They have no idea who or what they want. That's why they're constantly changing their mind, their hair style and color, etc. Never ask why with it comes to a woman. Just be ready for her next move.
2007-02-02 01:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-05 19:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Randall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this at all. Sounds like a boyfriend who has commitment issues. The whole "milk and a cow" thing. If he can't commit to her, and she wants to commit to him, then this relationship is going nowhere. I've heard some of the much younger set use the excuse, "Marriage is a bourgeois institution meant to enslave people." I've also heard, "Marriage is just a piece of paper." In both cases, why the fear? If a woman wants to get married, and her boyfriend does not, then either end it now or ratchet the relationship down a notch or three. Ditto if it is a guy and she won't commit.
2016-05-24 04:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it does sound like that may be the case, it may not be either... She may realize that getting involved in another relationship with someone so soon after a serious breakup may not be wise or fair to you. All you can do for now is accept her explanation and go on with your life.... It's hard to know what goes on in some ppl minds sometimes...
And, no, not all women are like that.... Men are guilty of it too..
2007-02-02 01:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Termite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh sweetheart, if she was going to marry a man 6months ago, she is most likely still not over him...it may not necessarily mean that she broke up with you to go back to him...but it could mean she needs NO relationship right now, since she is still trying to heal from her past relationship and heart break. i would give her this time needed away...and dont wait for her, live your life and date. if she wants to come back when she's ready, then you will know its meant to be.... if not, well then, your already dating someone new anyway.... next time you start a relationship, a good question to ask is how long did they break up, and why.
im being honest, coming from another woman, im telling you 6months is nothing if she planned on marrying this guy..she is not ready for another relationship right now...
good luck but keep your head up, dont give up, but give her time...concentrate on your life...
2007-02-02 01:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you were the rebound guy. She may not be going back to him but she is moving on.
2007-02-02 01:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right on. you were just a rebound. sorry. she tried to get over him with you. it didn't work and you were the one that got hurt, not her. ask for your gift back. just kidding.
2007-02-02 01:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are heartless, souless and evil creatures. Sike ladies u guys are great but i guess because they like being ignored and treated like crap.
2007-02-02 01:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by lover in despair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well, move on now...
2007-02-02 01:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by yawhosucs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋