He said she was kind of sexy but that she had a big nose. Am I crazy? What does he mean "kind of SEXY"?????? I think he meant she was sexy and he likes her. Should i dump him?
2007-02-02 01:13:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would :)
2007-02-02 01:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Maniaka 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Guys are always going to be guys. Just because he thinks she is sexy does not mean he wants to dump you for her. You may think some of his friends are hot, but you may choose not to express it to him. One piece of advice: Do not let your friend know of this conversation. In my life I have found that women love to have the upper hand and if she knows he thinks she is sexy you will probably lose both relationships. This may be for the best. Women are cruel and mean to each other. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
2007-02-02 03:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by journeysmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same predicament a few months back when my fiancé said something about one of my friends that I thought was unacceptable. I got all bent out of shape and did not speak to him for a few days, however I did speak to her. In the and it was just me being me and taking it the wrong way. What you and what I should have done was confront it. Now what you can do is take It for what it is worth. If he makes a move then she was not your friend and he is not your man. Now don't get me wrong a man will be a man but a friend is a friend tell the end.
Good luck.....
2007-02-02 01:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by Taz Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he meant what you think... He said that she has a big nose... What kind of man likes a girl with a nose like an aubergine!!! Don't ask anything to your boyfriend about how he feels and thinks about your female friends. The answer might upset you.. Trust yourself and tell him that you're the best... And don't take your boyfriend with you when you meet your female friends... Some women don't even respect other women and they try to get other women's boyfriends just to satisfy themself...DO NOT TELL YOUR FEMALE FRIEND WITH A BIG NOSE WHAT YOUR BOYFRIEND SAID ABOUT HER... DO NOT TELL HER!!!!
2007-02-02 01:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by :( 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no do not dump him im a guy and its hard for use to tell the truth especially when it come to our girlfriend friends. I think you should watch your girl cause the only way anything can happen between them is if she lets it . Maybe ask her what she think of him and why she thinks that now if she s really your friend then you have nothing to worry about ya dig that's my advice to you from me.i hope i helped.
Kay
2007-02-02 01:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by kay112ss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he made a bad judgement by saying those things wether they affect yr relationship depends on trust ...do you trust yr friend and do you trust yr boyfriend if the answer is a big yes then no problem .........it sounds like you dont trust them 100% which is the real problem here not the fact he said she was sexy ............you cant stop people from falling in love if 2 people feel that way wether you dump him will make no difference......all you can do is let things take their course and then you will know wether you can trust them ..............
2007-02-02 01:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He added that remark about her nose to let you know that he wouldn't make a move on her. Don't dump him. If he wanted to do something with her he wouldn't have made that remark about her nose.If you would want to make sure that your friend tell wouldn't mess around with your boy friend talk to her.Without telling her what he said, just a girlfriendd to girlfrien talk in general without judging her or your boyfriend. Tell her that you think girls that mess with other friends B.F.'S are the lowest.
2007-02-02 01:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how he said it he could have just been playing but either way the fact that he said it was disrespectful .If he was trying to hook up a friend and said it then to just persuade that person more then it is kind of different but you should really talk to him about it .Does he flirt with her though
2007-02-02 01:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by shinya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be silly. You have to eventually realize that normal healthy adults should be able to appreciate a person they are naturally attracted to. We are all attracted to someone. It's acting on those impulses that get us into trouble. Maybe you should be happy in the fact that your boyfriend is comfortable enough with you to even bring up such a subject.
2007-02-02 01:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by Aimee S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to dump him just because of what he said? U gotta be joking?????
Maybe he could have used another word but that does not mean he has the hots for her. I think allot of men are sexy even my husbands brother. But I only love my hubby!!!!
2007-02-02 01:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by Spokie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, dont dump him....TALK to him....you dont want to come off as a jelouse freak... you want to be cool, calm, collected about it.... maybe he is just trying to be cute, a little playfulness didnt hurt anybody...why dont you pick out one of HIS hot friends, and say it outloud next time...tell him his friend has a nice a**
that will get his attention fastttttttttttttttttttttttttttt.. haha.
it also depends on how old he is and how long you two have been dating for? if he is young and too young to be committed, maybe he is starting to look around, and thats wrong. either way, the best thing to do is make sure you say something about one of his hot friends, and be sure you two have a nice adult conversation about this. there is no use of crying over spilled milk...milk can be easily cleaned up.
good luck hun!
2007-02-02 01:18:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋