There is this man, who states that he is "seeking a serious
relationship". He is single and has a friend who married some Russian with a child. That Russian is constantly poking her Russian fingers into every pie, she reads his e-mails, and when we talk on the phone, every time she is on the background, chiming: "He is a nice guy!", or correcting me, or giving me a lecture on how "beautiful" love can be.
It seems that she lives in his house, instead of her husband's! And
when does she look after her daughter?
He told me, too, that they travelled together - she, her daughter, and he, no her husband - to several resorts and he paid for everything! He says that she "helps him" to find a woman, a possible future wife!
Why does a man needs some woman, a foreigner, to "help him" to find wives?
And it seems that any woman he starts talking to must be approved of that Russian. I do not understand it. Are they lovers and covering it for the husband?
2007-02-02 00:59:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Or is he that immature that in his age - 58! - he needs some woman to
pick a woman for him?
2007-02-02 01:00:14 · update #1
Why do you even bother to be in this situation?
The options are... he is having an affair or he is incredibly immature.
Is one better than the other?
Do you really want to be involved with either one one of those scenarios?
2007-02-02 01:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Undergroundmann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a bit freaky. I would steer well clear of this weird arrangement.
I would also give some thought to your attitude about her origins. You refer to her solely as "that Russian" or "Some Russian", or "a foreigner" and I'm sure if you were speaking it, you would pull a disgusted face about her being from another country. Chill out.
2007-02-02 09:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Whateverandeverandamen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could have his interest at heart and is being overly nosey or she could be involved its not easy being in a three when you want it to be ' two ' . the only way to find out is to ask him if you can talk away from his 'friend ' as you find it off-putting ...........
2007-02-02 09:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lovers, but tis very scarwy!
2007-02-02 09:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Michael U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they lovers
2007-02-02 09:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
I THINK THEY LOVERS
2007-02-02 09:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by SKINNY BONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
2007-02-02 09:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋