My boyfriend is asking me to have sex... I have not tried to have sex. And worst i dont know how to make him satisfied... any tips how to make him happy and satisfied.. that hw will never forget what we have done. What should i do first... steps.. ways? etc. Thanks!
2007-02-02 00:57:43 · 16 answers · asked by ++misha_want++ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the holy bible says not to until you are married, so i wouldn't and unless you are willing to get pregnant, i wouldn't
2007-02-02 01:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
First of all--if he is asking you to and you are actually considering it, make sure that you are comfortable with it and that you are doing it for you and not for him. It's a terrible terrible feeling when you do something like that for someone else and they turn around and break your heart. If he's knows its your first time he should embrace that and not judge you for how you are in bed. If he makes you feel uncomfortable or insecure about ANYTHING then don't do it. My first couldn't get over the fact that I wouldn't give him a bj, but the way he acted about it and treated me about it, I didn't want to do anything for him at all. Just let whatever happens happen and do whatever feels right. Don't try to mimick a porn star because if you are unexperienced it could just turn out to be a recipe for disaster. If you really want to make him satisfied, ask him what he wants and when you are performing said requests, ask him how you are doing and if there is anything else you can do. He should appreciate that more than you trying to pick up pointers from other people, and if he doesn't then he isn't worth your time anyways.
2007-02-02 09:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to realize is that he is a guy he will always get satisfaction from sex.
You should concentrate on yourself. You do not want this experience to go by without being satisfied yourself.
Try Oral sex to start with. Find your G-Spot for oral sex and ask him to satisfy you and they you do the same for him, that is always a good way to start.
Remember you need to have fun out of this to.
Plenty of petting is always good.
But the most important thing to do at all times when having sex is PROTECT YOURSELF. USE A CONDOM!!!
2007-02-02 09:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I really think you shouldn't have sex just because he's asking you! Are you ready? Do you feel comfortable with having sex at this point in your life? Girl, before you want to make him happy and satisfied, make sure you are.
2007-02-02 09:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by sweetness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't have sex until you are ready and dont let him pressure you into it. If he is a good guy he will wait until you are ready. When you are ready start off kissing him all over. Then give him oral until he is as hard as a rock. Massage his balls while you deep throat. Strip off your clothes in a sexy way, climb on top of him and kiss his neck and ears. Since this is your first time with him he should take over after that. --These are like the most innocent ways to please a guy. If you need more tips let me know. Good luck!
2007-02-02 09:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing is that one night ; stay in and where somthing really sexy for him and cook a special dinner for him and talk during the dinner for awhile with candles and all dark, then hold his hand and ask him to go to the bedroom with you and then kiss from the bottom of his legs and up,and up, intill you get to the middle part of the penis lick around the penis and then kiss all the way round to his neck and then lie down on the bed and you two will have amazing sex for hours , have a good night. and reapeat all;he be gagging again one night; hope this helps good luck;
2007-02-02 09:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by teri c 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol usually he will have to satisfy you. As a guy the happiest moment is when a girl is just a freak in bed so b a freak lol.
2007-02-02 09:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by lover in despair 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you have not tried to have sex, that is the best policy. Your virtue is viewed by God as Great, and should not be given to any man outside of marriage. Please listen to my words. Save yourself for you husband on your honeymoon. God be with you.
2007-02-02 09:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by princezelph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to know how to satisfy him because boys generally requests girls as per their choices of fore play and sex. Rest to be done by him.
But try to avoid till marriage (as per indian culture girls remain virgin till marriage)
2007-02-02 09:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, hmmm... kids can be round here so I rather not answer... Anyway, a thing: Be sure you really want this. You may regret doing it... and there is no turning back...
2007-02-02 09:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is something that gets better the more you do it --- you can try different things and find what pleases you and what pleases your partner ---- experiment enjoy and best wishes
2007-02-02 09:07:07 · answer #11 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋