2007-02-02 00:29:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
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2007-02-02 02:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm, its hard to give a general answer to this, but I can share my personal experience. I am 22, dont know how old u are, but I have always had issues with self confidence, especially with my body. Of course if you feel bad about your outside, youll feel bad inside as well. I never have truly been able to look at myself in the mirror without finding something wrong. However, I was adopted when I was a new born, and met my birthmom for the first time, over Thanksgiving 2006. For the first time I saw where I came from and figured, if I think I am ugly, that must mean I think my Mom is ugly, and I think shes beautiful. So, she made me, and that makes me beautiful as well. Plus, God doesnt make mistakes! Wherever your lack of confidence lies, try to look deeper into why you may not be feeling as good about yourself as you should. Also, a great thing is to, if you have an interest in painting, photography, helping the poor or elderly say at a soup kitchen, etc.... use those skills and when u see what a difference you have made, or what a great picture you painted or took, your confidence will always get a boost. If you have a good relationship with your parents, and if your still young enough, ask them what skills they have seen in you that they have been proud of, and if nothing else, use that to maybe find a job or volunteer work that will bring you peace, confidence and maybe even a little extra cash. Good luck!
2007-02-02 08:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Alley 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My parents made me walk with my shoulders back, head held high, and my eyes straight ahead. Although I may not be confident on the inside, no one would ever know it by the way I walk into a room or down the street. I command the room even when scared to death. I take over if I have to, even when I can feel my hands sweat, my face turn red and my ears are burning. And if I didn't do all these things and command respect, I wouldn't get any.
2007-02-02 09:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what that's a question that's also a fact. You may not get it but i mean when you ask that question It's like you have no self- confidence. So it's like you are saying you dont trust yourself or you think a negative fact about yourself. or a fact like you are ugly. but even if i never saw u yet i think you are thinking the wrong thing about yourself.... to be become confident the only thing you need to do is to trust and believe in yourself.
I COPIED THAT FROM A BOOK .... HAHAHA
2007-02-02 08:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by ms. smarty- pants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing that your you are worth alot to someone or to something!!!
2007-02-02 08:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by bdcolditz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know...but with a smile on ur face like that..do you really need to know?
2007-02-02 08:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by Isuck,Usuck,Weallsuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your self...don't try to be someone else...enjoy it every step you move...
if it's not works just use a bag on your face....hahahahaaaa...
don't make something simple so hard to do....
2007-02-02 08:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by bali girls 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOVE YOURSELF
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
LOVE YOUR BODY AND APPRECIATE IT.
KNOW YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND DO SHAKE WHAT YOUR MAMA GAVE YOU.
2007-02-02 08:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by buttercup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋