I went to see my long-distant bf a couple of weeks ago, during my time there, he said I'm gonna get you here more often. But when I got back, he never called, although answers his phone when I do call. The last straw is today. I called him (for the last time) to see what the hell is going on. He told me he was at work, I said shall I call you later and he said he would call me. He was really pleasant and asked how I was etc... Why is it that he hasn't called me back? I know you guys are thinking he's not into me, but the thing is, I've known him for 2 yrs, he can't just ignore me as a sign he's not interested. What should I do? please help
I sent him a text saying "you could hav used the mature approach and told me it's over, you done me a favour anyway" etc..... I was quite pleasant to him. It shows I'm not THAT bothered about it. He hasn't replied!!
What's my next step?
2007-02-01 23:35:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and why is he doing this? I thought we had something? I'ma stop calling him now, is that the best approach?
2007-02-01 23:40:31 · update #1
was that text I sent a gud idea?
2007-02-01 23:41:45 · update #2
your next step is to move on....u can do better, a LOT better!
2007-02-01 23:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Susie K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exacatly are you asking? I see the answer to your question in the question you've typed. You don't want people to giv eyou advice - you want people to tell you "you did the right thing." And that is not anyone else's place to tell you.
HE should grow up? perhaps you should too.
J
2007-02-01 23:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by poolshark21209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe he is just going through a life change. He might not want to end it with you, but he is weighing out everything in his life, he is sorta takign a mental break. Just give him a bit. wait until tomorrow, or maybe text him and ask him, what is wrong? maybe something is bothering him! don't jump to conclusions, they might turn around and bite you in the ***.
2007-02-01 23:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by pippy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to b frankley honest a think that he was dating u and then u hav got to clingy and he is backing off maybe u wer goin too fastt for him.....take the hint stop txtin him and foneing him if ur not BOTHERED.... move on...he has
2007-02-01 23:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His trying to tell you to move on but doesn't know how or he doesn't know what he really wants
That's the difficult decision
2007-02-01 23:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jackal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not "bothered," why are you here asking this question?
2007-02-01 23:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-02-01 23:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone !
2007-02-01 23:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find someone to take your mind off the jerk... :D
2007-02-01 23:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to say this, but he may not be your bf any more.
2007-02-01 23:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋