why do I always attract the wrong kind of attention. Like people i am frens wrongly end up likin me and certain guys that are real nice dun appraoch me. How do i make myself more approachable to the right kind of sweet, genuine guys? Because of this I end up dressing down cuz there is no one who appeals and I dun want to attract ppl I dun like cuz i dun want to risk ruining frenships
2007-02-01 23:15:47 · 9 answers · asked by reena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
am 20 years old
2007-02-04 18:31:18 · update #1
twenty is a hard age because your post high school mentality is still there for alot of people. i go to college and alot of these kids are straight out of high school and still act like it. thats real sweet that your worried about what others think, but do you really care what your peers think. you guys are still trying to figure out who you are and what your about. people come and go. try to enjoy your age and keep being who you are. dont change for anyone. you shouldnt have to adjust to the rest of the world because they have issues. your going to drive yourself nuts trying to please everyone. let them come to you and sift out the creeps early on. thats great you want to surround yourself with positive people. ive always been the type of person to have a few close friends rather than alot of insincere losers just to say i have alot of friends.
2007-02-09 22:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by xtal6872 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a very genuine person. Are U unapproachable because you are very pretty? If that is so than you will have to be the conversation starter. Guys are totally scared and intimidated by attractive women...at least the good guys...:) So just dress down like you say, and be the natural person you are and let them see that you are super sweet and approachable. You will get just the right sweet guy...good luck!
2007-02-01 23:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sorry to say this, but from your question you come across as fairly uneducated and maybe even a bit ditzy....The genuine guys you speak about are looking for a woman for a relationship. Women who seem ditzy and uneducated are the ones they would go to for flings, not for love. If you want to attract the genuine guy, dress conservatively, be articulate, and don't look like you are desperate!
2007-02-09 23:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by Matt S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the vibe that you are putting out. You probably only feel that the wrong guy is good enough for you and not the right guy. Put it into your mind what attributes you want in a guy and remember that
2007-02-09 13:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Escape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow, Dr,. Rug, to help you out. I want you to put yourself in a trance. To convince yourself to only listen to Your Heart. it won't lie, or hurt you. POther people will. If you can train yourself to listen to The Old Ticker? You'll only attract ones, that hs the same Heart beat. Now go try out my Theory. Luck!
2007-02-01 23:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never date one of your friends and or friends ex boyfriends that just causes problems also when you go out looking for someone don't act like your needy be your self and enjoy your self don't just pick the first one that comes along be picky guy don't like needy girls !and dress a Little more stylist show them you have some style and a little attitude believe in your self
2007-02-09 23:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by luvinlola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you meant Aquarius sunlight so my answer will presume that to be authentic. while human beings meet you, they first meet your becoming (character). they don't get to be conscious of you sunlight (character) till they be conscious of you for a rapid time. (do you hold your supplies, do you ensue on time, artwork not undemanding, and so on.) they don't meet your Moon (thoughts) till you enable them to work out it. The Scorpio becoming isn't undemanding to attitude. The ruler, Pluto, is so far available it incredibly is not undemanding to tell what it fairly is approximately. Aquarius is a the shepherd, gazing over the flock from afar, not up close and private. human beings don't get to work out your emotional, relaxing-loving Leo moon till you're waiting to enable your safeguard down. It you elect to fulfill greater human beings, teach the emotional ingredient of your nature slightly previous to you generally might. sturdy success!
2016-10-16 10:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by jackson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say start acting more, uhh outgoing, if you try talking to them, they will talk to you back and even if they dont, there are plenty of fish in the sea, youll find one soon or a later
2007-02-09 17:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by beepboombang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u?
2007-02-04 17:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Grace is a liar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋