im really really over him...i realise now that he wasn't the one4 me.im even starting to have feelings for another person
but the problem now is my sisters...they aint helping me to get over the whole story!! the keep talking about him, searching after his new stories..and insists on telling me his news...that's annoying me..i tried many times to convince them that its non of my business anymore..and i really don't care about him . but they give me that look..whice tells (yeah yeah..ofcourse u don't, u still care )!!!!..last night, i had a fight with them cuz i found them opining his pics on his own website...(his a singer by the way...but not that famous)..and when i asked them 2 stop...they got angry with me, saying...why don't u just take it as a game...just 4 fun !!!..well..is my feelings a game now? then. i left them...not talking to them till now ...plz tell me what should i do
2007-02-01 23:03:44 · 13 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems to me that no matter what you do they're never going to stop (no matter how much it hurts you or how much you ask them to stop). I think you have three choices:
1) Let things continue the way they are.(a bad option for sure)
2) Ignore them completely. (also not the best idea) Or....
3) "give them a taste of their own medicine". In other words bring up their old bf's, tell them things you heard about what their up to. Maybe bring out some old pictures. Even if they say they don't care I bet you they really will, especially if they were hurt by this guy. Then you can say to them, "see, this is how you make me feel every time you bring up my ex-bf". Hopefully, once they see how it feels to be the one being picked on and laughed at they will apologize, or at least stop doing it. It sounds like this is really bothering you so good luck and I hope this helped.
2007-02-01 23:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didn't. I went to church as a child, I never assumed it was anything more than a pretty community ritual. I've never seen any reason to change my opinion. I was OK then, I'm OK now. I'd say I'm better for my religious background. I got excellent instruction in choral singing, and observed how ritual can play an important part of someones imagination.
2016-05-24 04:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a very difficult question to anwser but i think the best thing to do would be to sit your family down for a serisous talk and let them know that you want him out of your life you don't wanna hear about him or anything else from now on tell them to just stop being so childish and if they don't listen tell them that you are very dissipointed and that you might not wanna talk to them for a while.........
2007-02-01 23:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by troyhilldom15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with the top two...stay away from your sisters. Walk away if they start taking about him. In a few days, why not start talking about this new guy in your life to show them you don't care about your ex anymore.
2007-02-01 23:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your sisters are like his "groupies" don't they? Maybe you should set one of them up on a date with him? What I would do is let your feelings for the other person grow and then bring him over to the house and right in front of your meddling sisters ( they do care ) lay a big, fat, kiss on him. That will definitely shut them up...
2007-02-01 23:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them again, firmly that your relationship with him are over, and give them a very strong hint that u like someone new.....
when you get a date the new guy, introduce him to ur sisters, then usually they will stop.
2007-02-01 23:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by littlemunkay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell them straight up that if they bring him up at all you are walking away and not listening. They need to quit playing that Drama game. I wouldn't put up with that sh it from nobody.
If they can't stop bringing him up tell them to stay out of your life and don't bother you again. They will soon straighten up and act right.
2007-02-01 23:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them if i still care about him or if i dont both ways he was my boy friend and not yours and this is my business,and when they talk about him and about his stories talk with them as if u know it and heared it before or as if talking easy about a total stranger ...let them talk ....dont show u r mad ...as if having fun too..they will be shocked with ur attitude and u will win
2007-02-01 23:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by imma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me your sisters are just trying to get on your nurves. Just ignore them. And you ex sounds stuck up so just don't get around him anymore!
2007-02-01 23:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're sisters are being b i t chez,simple as that,I suggest you talk to them in a serious manner and ask them to stop,if they don't,consider not talking to them for a good while.
2007-02-01 23:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋