i thought a relationship was and my ideal relationship and my expectations etc,,,i told her that i would like to be in love and settle down with someone,,,,and so on,,,,after the date i text her and said that i would definatley be interested in getting to know her more she text back saying she felt the same way,,,,now Monday she cut back on the texting she don't text me anymore like she did,,,i called her yesterday i ask what the problem was and asked if it was something i did,,,,she said no and that she still needs time to figure out her feelings for me and if she wanted to start something with me,,,i asked her if another man was involed she said no,,,i also asked her if she is still coming to spend the night with me on Sat night since it was her idea in the first place she said no but might change her mind,,,if she don't call by Sat shall i assume she not interested???? or what she i think????
2007-02-01 22:56:50 · 11 answers · asked by DMT 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop following up, ignore her for sometime. If you give too much importance, she will sit on your head.
2007-02-01 23:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by Vik 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like more of an interview than a date!! God! It sounds to me like she's needing some space. Possibly she's just come out of a relationship and is unsure about starting something new. Maybe she's just not sure how she feels However, either way I'd suggest give her some space. Maybe send her a general text saying something along the lines of "Hi. How are you? Would be nice to see you at the weekend if you still want to meet up. Anyway, just let me know what you fancy doing. Have a good day. x then just leave it at that. If she wants to meet up she'll let you know. If she doesn't for whatever reason she's not interested so best to leave it and move on. Its weird for her to change her feelings so quickly after the date so it sounds dodgy to me.
2007-02-01 23:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude!!! I know you're interested and all that but slow the hell down! A man coming across as full on and needy as you will spend any girl into a spin!!! Dont contact her again - if she doesnt contact you saturday then shes obviously not that interested - you've made the effort - please dont make a show of yourself by ringing her or texting anymore - she has your number if she wants you!!!
And if she doesnt - plenty more fish in the sea!
xx
2007-02-01 23:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow
sheeesh spending the night after one date good god man take it easy
you went way to fast and she needs time to sort out HER feelings
you told her wayyyyyyyyyyy to much on a first date
everyones goal is to settle down and find the "right" one
just take it easy ask her to lunch it is not pushy or forward
just talk to her about life in general she will figure out if she wants to be more then friends or not
2007-02-01 23:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could of just freaked her out a bit, just take things more slowly if you back off a bit and let her do the chasing dont text or call her till she does first, she'll realise that she either wants you or doesnt and then you'll know.
2007-02-01 23:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tx her 4 a bit and let her come 2 u
2007-02-01 23:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be now she thinks that its going too fast and she should think about it. Girls take time to fall into these kind of relashionships you see.
2007-02-01 23:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by pellmell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down man! You must be freaking her out!
2007-02-01 23:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by kanga147 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is waiting to see if she gets a better offer. Run like hell.
2007-02-01 23:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by starflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she likes you alot, she is just trying to see what you will do.... tell her you love her too much and will be willing to wait for her to come around.... all the best. And take it slow.....and pray about it
2007-02-01 23:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by pretty1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋