hes 20 years old and i dont think hes ever even kissed a girl. all of his friends say theyve never known him to have a g/f. and i they all know that i like him, but they dont know if he likes me. i dont know what to do..i dont want to lose him as a friend, but i really like him and cant tell if he does me or not...the only time i usually see him is at church or something like that..his friend told me that he has the idea that i like him but doesnt know for sure..me and him went and ate sunday after church though..he kept asking me really random questions..all his friends say that its possible he likes me, but they arent sure. and one of them said that if he didnt like me, he probably wouldnt have went and ate with me..(since he kinda knows i like him)..but he could have just been being nice right? its just so hard to tell..i mean, hes like super religious and super shy..and im shy..so i just dont know what to do..everyone says he wouldnt ever make a first move, but im scared to, too
2007-02-01 22:56:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, shyness is not as much of a problem as his 'super religiousness' as you call it. I am afraid I am not into anyone who is over-zealous about anything (other than me)! I think you have given him enough of a lead - he didn't take it so forget him as he is pobably more into the Church than women.
2007-02-01 23:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a little Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints to me (No offence you guys!) oh and a little too introverted so it looks like since you are only "shy" and he is "Supershy", you gonna have to make the first move...Understand though, as you have not put his religion, that if you do get with him, make sure you understand a little about his faith and what it would mean for you in the longrun!
2007-02-02 00:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, great job on asking him out. Just try to keep on talkin wid him abt things both of u are comforatble with. Since its church, maybe religion, then get to know him better through more lunch dates :). Dun rush it though, since u guys are both shy. Am sure he will warm up to u soon and actually start askin u out for the dates instead!. All the best!
2007-02-01 23:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by reena 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh. The modern day world has many fantastic features including texting and email. Just send one aksing if he wants to go to the movies or something. If he says yes then booyah, if not then just play it cool and say "oh well, maybe nextime". If you get rejected you can always just say it was an accident and the message was meant for someone else. Oh the wonders of technology.
2007-02-01 23:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he sure is interested but he is too too shy. So its gotta be you who has to make him comfortable around you. Drop in hints and suggestions and give it some time. You both will be alright.
2007-02-01 23:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by ash 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no rely how shy the guy is,he will in no way think of your good or stalker. females generally tend to think of this way while adult men try to communicate to them. flow consult with him like hes considered one of your human beings,and that i think of its particularly undemanding given which you the two have the comparable considerable and share assorted instructions.
2016-11-02 03:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the new type of resturant for shy people the lights are turned of and the waiters have night vision goggles.
2007-02-01 23:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by tomski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bite the bullet and simply ask him. Trust me, my g/f and i went through the same thing, now we look back and wonder what the hell we were thinkin
2007-02-01 22:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by tickTickTICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when evr i meet men I just grab their junk sacs and if they punch me I no im not thier type of man and you should never kiss a girl thats sick men love men only
2007-02-01 22:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by gay pharoah tha don 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
build up your courage and go for it! your 20 for cryin out loud. good luck
2007-02-01 23:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋