wat is love exactly?

Answer 1

In most cases we think: this is true love, when in fact it’s not. But than if this ain’t love than what it is? There are plenty of things that we confuse with love.


It could be just the basic instinct. The feelings can be passionate and crazy, but in fact both people may want only sex. And after it all the misunderstanding starts, and once infatuated lovers will find out that they have nothing in common and sometimes they don’t even know what to talk with each other.


Another variant is when people lack support, care and attention to their person or they just scared to stay single. Being with someone can be a habit when one simply got used to the other. It can either be a sick addiction or some self-interest. People call all these types of relationship love just by mistake or trying to conceal the true nature of it.


But than what does real love look and feel like? Maybe it’s when two people seem to know each other for ages and even in their previous lives. They can go on talking and talking and conversation never lacks topics and never gets dull. Or people don’t have to say anything because they understand each other without words. And those moments, minutes and even hours of silence are never uncomfortable. True love is when partners complete one another, when they’re together it’s peaceful, the whole other world with it’s sufferings and problems doesn’t exist and nothing even matters.


True love means understanding. One trusts another more than him/herself and feels ready to satisfy every little need of a partner. Two people don’t stop for a second looking into each other eyes.

It’s said that two persons truly in love aren’t looking at each other but in the one direction. And this is rather reasonable because they don’t say nothing “this is yours and this is mine” and share everything: friends, enemies, interests, problems and etc. One has his/her own identity but sees him/herself only as a part of the other. Still real love is not a relationship of property. If you really love someone you may say “I belong you” but always be ready to let go if it makes the person you love happy.


Jealousy stands out of the true love. How can one be jealous if there’s so much love and faithfulness? Real love doesn’t long for power, it doesn’t want to hurt, doesn’t want to punish for mistakes, it’s self-sacrificing and ready to forgive other and other again. But it’s wrong to think that true love is always a suffering, it only means that you take a person as he or she is and don’t expect the one you love to be perfect.


True love isn’t supposed to blow your mind, yet it doesn’t tend to get and to possess – it’s a and very special state of a soul.


But the question that true love is still has no definite answer. Do we truly love only once in our life? At what age are we supposed to meet our love? Does it last for a lifetime or just for a while? Probably everyone has his own answers to this questions. The truth is that no one should spend life chasing ideals or building relationships by some model of a true love. One will probably fail and miss the real thing beyond all this.


We should remember that very many things we need to supply our healthy and comfortable living but only the true feeling of love makes life really longer and happier. And this is scientifically proved.

Answer 2

♥when u want to spend time with that person all your life
♥when u see nothing more important in life than that person
♥when u just want to be with that person no matter what you do
♥when u could be cleaning the toilet for heaven's sake and feel like u
just won the lottery because you are with her
♥when u feel anyone else should be jealous cause you are with the most amazing person ever
♥when u aren't with her then you know you would already rather be with her than the biggest celebrity.
....♥even if she isn't beautiful to the outside world she is to you and anyone who doesn't see how gorgeous she is...you can't even comprehend that because to you she is the most beautiful thing you have ever seen.♥
♥when she looks at u or walks by you u feel like your whole day has just been made because of that.
♥ when she says thank you to you, you just feel like you are 10 feet tall♥;on top of the world.
♥When u see that person and ur mind just goes "omg,omg, there she is."
when u LOVE her. .. u know what it is, ♥

Answer 3

I really think,some individuals won't know what the 'love' feeling is like,until it happens to them.Because,each of us have our own different love feelings,how we feel about the partner..etc.But u will know,when u have fallen in love with the correct guy/girl,it strikes,sometimes when the least u expect it,the 'feeling' is there and it is so great..somehow,the inside of u,ur own little voice,ur heart will know itself,when u have fallen in love with the right person.For it is not easy to describe..that's why they always say eg: 'words cannot describe how much i love u'..(its mushy but its e truth)

Answer 4

It's hard to explain. It's a weird feeling in your gut when you're around the person you love.

A true desire to be with them at all times. Feeling empty without them. It's euphoric, and that feeling doesn't last forever. So enjoy it.

Answer 5

What ever the love means , if u loved by someone whom u love than it means something .

Answer 6

love is the essence of life. it makes u feeeeeel in a different way that can,t be expressed in words but pains alot ie sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet pain.

Answer 7

Love is something to loose urself for somebody for wt all n for wtever the person is. It sounds immpractical but its true......I think.

Answer 8

there is no proper defination of love.but 4 me love is life.every1in this world need some1 whom they can love.with whom we love is not compulsory that it has 2 b r life partner.it can b r parents,sister,brother or freind.the person whom we love,we trust that person more than we do 2 ourselves.that person never leave us & is always there when we need him/her.

Answer 9

love is sumthing when u like sum1 more than u.u will forgive unlimited faults of his or her.everything done by the person good or bad will b liked by u.

Answer 10

All the aboves are true.

ha ha, It's really very very difficult to explain in just few simple words.