i am a single mum for a boy of 3 years. i have been thinking of changing my job (KG teacher for 7 years) because in my country it pays peanuts. and i need to make more and have a job where there is an option of personal and professional growth, but at the same time it means long hours and less vacations and so time to see my son!
2007-02-01 22:28:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
`follow your heart sweety' if that will make you happy!
remember your child too needs security in terms of finance,NOW!
2007-02-01 22:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by wel-come 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello there.
Don't worry, it does not pay well in the US either! There are however, benefits that are not as easily measured. I am sure that your job allows you to have time with your son that you might now have in a different job. Your schedule should allow you to have time to be a mother as well as a teacher. In fact that is one of the reasons that many working mothers go into teaching.
It is my opinion, and one that is backed up by facts, that the next 4 years are key from a develpmental standpoint. There is never a good time for a child to be deprived of his mothers time and interaction, but there are times that are worse than others. From birth to 7 years is the time that his personality, his moral values and much of what he will carry with him into adulthood are being formed. Sad to say that what he learns in these essential years can not be unlearned, but will remain a part of his psyche.
In short, job opportunities will always be there, your son will not. You can afford to wait until he is a bit older to pursue more avenues in your career but if you take this precious time away from your little boy it can never be recaptured.
If you can even wait two more years to make changes in your career status it will make a world of difference to you son. I am sure that if he were able to articulate his choice it would be to have his mother with him as much as possible rather than to have what ever dubious financial gains you might acquire.
Children are our most precious gift and our greatest burden. Decisions that we make must be predicated on what is best for them, that is after all our first job as mothers.
Please wait a few years, the rewards will be great and I am sure you will never be sorry.
Blessings,
Lady Trinity~
2007-02-02 07:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Trinity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think since you are already struggling with the question, you have the answer. Look inside you and your heart and soul will guide. Ask yourself this: Do I want more money but less time with my son? I would wait until he is older to search for a job that offers more personal and professional growth. Right now, he needs you.
2007-02-02 06:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Sparks♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The money is nice but you need to think about your son too. How will he benefit from it. Can you manage now with the income your are making? Since your a single mom its hard to make decisions like that. I am a single mother of two wonderful boys a 6 and a 3 year old, i work a minimum wage job, but i am happy to be with my kids, that's what they need.Good luck!!
2007-02-02 06:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by mandy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Teaching is one of the hardest jobs and most unappreciated jobs as well. How about keeping the job and thinking "outside" the box. Start up a side business, consulting, or daycare with learning, not just baby sitting. I am sure other working mothers are very interested in their children "expanding their minds" rather that just watching videos, etc.,
2007-02-02 10:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to just weigh the costs and the benefits and make the decision that is right for you. I would personally wait until he was a bit older and in school.
2007-02-02 06:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by J D 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, there is nothing more important than your child right now. Wait for a few years.
2007-02-02 06:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by starflower 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since this issue connected to your son..
you should talk and tell him all this question..
he will give you the best answer, trust me.
2007-02-02 06:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do what you feel.
2007-02-02 06:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by Bertie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋