guys if a girl texted you "i cant get you off my mind" would you freak out? Please be honest. Some guy that i used to see stopped talking to me.4 months later he calls me back and says he misses talking to me, and the only reason he stopped talking to me was because i always accuse him of being a player and he hates when people judge him because of how he looks(because he has a nice car, verryyy hot, a very nice place to live, and girls all thinks hes cute). I dont care about all that at all. I really like him a lot but sometimes i do get the feeling he is one. and he just recently broke up with his girlfriend like a month ago because she moved to texas, he says he really likes me hes not ready for a relationship. When i see him i feel all my emotions towards him to come back and i cant get him off my mind. would it be wierd and scary or cute if i text him i cant get you off my mind. What would be something much better to say instead ...to make him smile and think of me.
2007-02-01 22:27:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-02 19:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by VocalistGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. He's on the rebound and I think texting that would be very poor in judgement.
First he just broke up with someone . He's not looking to replace his GF.
Second, I see you have a crush and you like him. But I would not text something that bold.
Start off by being his friend and go from there.
Building a friendship first will first be a good start to get a feel to see if he really is a player and show you a different side of him . I think being a friend and talking it slow would be a good start . Just say hi in a text or just do a simple phone call .
Plus remember , he is just getting off a relationship and some guys don't like to be pressured by girls and remember .. they are guys and think differently than us.
2007-02-01 22:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to know him again, dont text him, hang out a while and see what he is like now... sounds like you should listen to that little voice that made you stop writing the text and come here and ask us. Certian types of guys have ways of attracting us to them, like when you see him, it doesnt mean you love him it just brings up all your feelings at once. take it slow, talk, stay mates... watch how he is with other people and girls, see if he runs at the first sign of trouble... ask direct questions, get direct answers, dont presume anything, and take it slow, plenty more fish in the sea... Personally I get a shifty feeling from what you said and I think you get it too... always trust your instincts girl.
Peace.x
2007-02-01 22:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling, i've been through the same experience.
Poshy car, branded clothing, cool job, verrry good looking, charming ......
What i did was simple, I continued living my normal life, without showing extra him extra interest (no calls/smses), or that I was impressed by his belongings. I treated him like any other guy! In the meantime I was giving him space and time. Even though my feelings were otherwise.
Basically, when he will notice that you're not paying much attention he'll come to you!
2007-02-01 23:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by LIZ G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think he is a player, then i dont think you should care. Even your that text is not gonna change his mind, but will only grow him more proud and selfish. So just forget it and go ahead, let him run after you, dont run after him or he wont give a thing to look back and you will get hurt.
2007-02-01 22:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Alkahest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i was u i well think he ain't the one because he didn't believed u and u should talk to Juan and try to act like he was trying to kiss u and when Alex comes he knows that Juan was the one who played him get a friend to tell u when he enters to call u. u check the caller id and start saying no get off me and he notices. or I Don't Know
2016-05-24 04:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i got that text, i'd be round her place and making sure it wasn't just her mind getting excited.. :D
2007-02-01 22:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋