and don't say by putting your hand down his trousers LOL! I think he could die of a heart attack!!!!
2007-02-01 22:11:47 · 34 answers · asked by greatdane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I know I should ask him myself! Call me old fashioned but I am 35 and have victorian values hehehe NOT!
2007-02-01 22:22:51 · update #1
Just a few more details, I think he is around 38 - 40, a bit older, I am treading carefully, as I asked my brother he is 45 - and said that he would find it slightly cheap a girl asking him out, even though he said he is for womens equality, I suppose its how you have been brought up really isnt it, but I suppose thats another question for debate LOL!
2007-02-02 02:29:10 · update #2
Being a shy guy I can tell you that I would love it if someone asked me out,but people think when your shy you are a snob,standoffish, truth is we are very nervous and self-conscious
so ask a shy guy out today
2007-02-02 01:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. Or talk about how you have nothing to do Saturday night and sure could use some company. Or say I'd like to go____ but I don't really want to go by myself. Talk to him give him lots of compliments. Save the putting your hand down his trousers part until later on in the date.
2007-02-01 22:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of ways to imply to him that you're interested. But if he's as shy as you make him out to be, he might also be lacking self-confidence. If that's the case, he may never ask you out even if he is interested.
Try a few things like engaging in personal conversations, talking about how you haven't been out in a while, etc. If the few attempts don't work, just ask him out girl! It's probably your best chance.
2007-02-01 22:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. A shy guy will appreciate being asked out by you. It takes a lot of courage for a shy guy to ask a girl out. It also leaves a bitter memory of your first moments as a couple. Ask him and make it fun and very obvious. Shy guys are often dumb when it comes to things like this.
I used to be the shy type. I was seduced by my first gf and it was very exciting. I now have more confidence.
2007-02-01 22:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dante 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you go up and say hi. Make him feel comfortable and give him signals that you like him, and then take it from there.
There is nothing wrong with a women asking out a man.
Good luck!
2007-02-01 23:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say to him "unless you get round to asking me out soon you're going to ruin a beautiful relationship".
If that doesn't work then give him the heart attack.
2007-02-02 00:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him be nice talk about things he is into bring the conversation around to food and the best place to eat when he gives u your answer just say how nice of you and set the whole thing up he will be shocked he wont know what is going on and you will be going for a date
2007-02-01 22:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe yes you're a bit old fashioned but if you REALLY want to date him then you should forget that fashion and ask him out yourself.
2007-02-01 22:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Falcon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men love assertive women these days and if you ask him it will make him feel special as it has probably never happened to him before.
2007-02-02 01:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by Danny D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha
please tell me what you would greatdane because im a shy guy myself
but in answer to your question, take the lead and ask me out because im shat scared of rejection, more so than guys who are really vain and for want of a better phrase "up themselves"
2007-02-01 22:19:56 · answer #10 · answered by Music fan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋