Well recently me and my ex boyfriend who dumped me 2 years ago, have been talking quite alot lately. He says stuff like, How he misses me and how he wishes he had somebody like me to spend time with. Why would he want me back if he dumped me? We were together for 10 months. And now 2 years later, he seems to want me back. I don't know what to do. I told him I still love him and all that. He knows. When I heard him say he wants somebody like me to spend time with. I really got happy and all smiles. But than something came across me. I'm thinking he dumped me, I should be the one trying to get back with him. But I don't know what to do. Why does this happen?
2007-02-01 21:15:05 · 10 answers · asked by Pretty Native Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I already know why he dumped me. Just that..WHY DOES HE WANT ME BACK?
2007-02-01 21:21:27 · update #1
I think he dumped me because he thought he could do better with another girl. Which did not happen. Because their relationship went to ****. How could you dump somebody when you were with them the whole time you were locked up? I told him that he'll never find another lady like me. And I think I was right!
2007-02-01 21:33:43 · update #2
Ask him why he dumpt you in the first place !!! Dont rush into a relationship with him cos he might do it again if he did it once he wont think twise of doing it again !!!
2007-02-01 21:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... the thing is, he's not saying he wants you... He's saying he wants someone like you, not necessarily you....
But, if he is trying to win you back, I honestly wouldn't be that confused.. He dumped you, and now he's realizing what an idiot he was and how he got rid of a good thing... For now, just see what happens... Don't go rushing back into his arms or anything, I would say try and play a little hard to get, if you make it too easy for him to come back, chances are he'll leave again or something, knowing full well he can come back whenever he wants...
Good luck, I hope it all works out for you...
2007-02-02 05:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by yogastar02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes people make mistakes. They realize they had a great thing. You should be open an honest and ask him why did he break up with you in the first place. Then ask, if you were to get back together how would things change? People do deserve second chances. Just be careful and think this through so you won't get burned twice by the same flame.
Good Luck to both of you
2007-02-02 05:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by aprildin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this but he's never said that he wants you back, from what you told us. He said he wishes he had someone like you to spend time with. In other words, he is saying that he wishes he had what you two had, but not you. There is a huge difference between missing the relationship and the person you were in the relationship with. So, listen to what he really says. Don't interpret it in the way you want him to mean. IF he really wanted to back, he will try REALLY hard to win you back.
2007-02-02 05:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it, but he dumped you because either he wanted other women, or he was big headed and thought he could do better.
Now he has come to the realisation that he can't do any better or no other women want him so has come crawling back. And is after one thing....
So as far as you tell him to 'jog on'.
2007-02-02 05:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants someone like u & not the actual u.This is happening becuz his now bored with the ladies his bn dating & remembers that there's one gal who can take him back becuz the gal is desparate 4 his love.stay away from fire b4 he burns u.Remember the pain he caused u,u better off without him gal.
2007-02-02 05:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people do something they are so sure of... and then sometimes they regret either the next day or the next year, regardless of that he has seemed to make the obvious apparent in that he realzes som1 like you was what he wanted... i'd say if it was goo be4... go for it, but also take into compensation that of the heart-break if he brakes of wit u again.... non one but you can make up your mind.
2007-02-02 05:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by confused individual 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the reason he broke up with you, i would tell him to late...What if, later down the road he does the same thing, nope, he wouldn't have a second chance....
2007-02-02 05:56:48 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is not getting what he wants elswhere and he thinks it wioll be on again if he takes up with you it would only be for awhile until he finds someone else
2007-02-02 05:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always remember exes are exes for a reason if that makes sense to you
2007-02-02 05:32:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋