I met this guy, sparks instantly, I was attracted by his charm, his personality - just his energy was attractive. He's not even the type of guy I'd normally go for. Well, he made me shy, so I asked him out - he blushed and said yes, while I got nervous and bolted out the door!
I attempted to see him another time, and he walked towards me...said hello, in a low voice and stared at the ground. I got nervous again and said nothing.
So now, months later - I knew I'd regret it if I didnt make a move. I told him I wanted to take him out. I didn't feel the same energy as before. In fact, he wasn't shy or nervous anymore. He was able to look me straight in the eye and he replied with, "I'm taken now. But thank you anyway".
I'm sad. I missed my chance.
2007-02-01 21:09:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What does he mean by saying he is ''taken'' ? That he has a girlfreind or he is married ?? Whatever, yes, you may have missed a chance, but instead of feeling awful of yourself, please do think of this that he too did not have the nerve to tell you anything. First 'yes', and then ''hello'' in a low voice, and the third time ''iam taken now'' really does not say much about what happened, but it certainly says something that your are absolutely right when you said he would not be the guy you normally go for. Probably he was not the one.
You wont miss again, would you, when you find the right person... I am sure you wont..I am sure you'd look back at this and just brush it away as a very insignificant moment in your life..
good luck
2007-02-01 21:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont beileve in 'god' andi dont beileve theres a 'hell or heaven'. Im a wiccan, and are religon has been going for alot longer, and theres more sense to it, i beileve in what i can see, touch, taste, and hear! not in a religon that classed use evil and 'witchs'. Heaven is a place were everythink is perfect. and hell is this place you are forever tourtured. We have an engery that cant disappear. them places exsist in are minds, there like stories to scare children. behave or the devil will get you! pft. the devil half beats half man came for our god 'pan'. are engery is transfered into somethink else. in to an animal, human, nature! when we die there is no knowing what really happens. but i wouldnt trust a random guy on youtube.
2016-03-29 01:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I'm sorry but you missed it. But try to take that as a learning experience. Guys like girls who are confident and know what they want. Next time, stay strong, it wasn't a complete loss if you learned something from it.
Never regret anything because everything happens for a reason. Dont cry because it's over, smile because it happened
2007-02-01 21:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you did not lose a chance, you got a rude awakening, you are probably too good for this guy since he did not take action when you told him first time, keep that stance, dont make yourself an easy person to get. You are the victor in this case. you are a strong confident woman. he is jus one of those, there are hell lotta better guys waiting for you out there so get going
2007-02-01 21:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt miss your chance. You mentioned that he is not your type. You just enjoyed the date with him. For a long relationship you need some one whose likes and dislikes are somewhat similar to yours. You will certainly meet other guys. Dont be sad. We love you.
2007-02-01 21:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you stated, you missed your chance. I'm surprised he even acknowledged you the second time after your first reation to him. If he was shy, that had to have hurt him quite badly.
2007-02-01 21:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by Nana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you missed your chance. I mean don't be lonley but just wait it out. Either you will find a Great guy, or this one will not be with his current one, and maybe you'll get your chance again. Things will be ok.
2007-02-01 21:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by photo_girl_90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said yourself you missed your chance. But you could wait and see if it doesn't work out for him and the person he is with?...
2007-02-01 21:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep checking in on him, maybe twice a month. The first time his girlfreind becomes a ***** he will come strait back too you.
2007-02-01 21:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by Nate H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You missed the 'boat' there hon. Never mind it might have been for the 'good' God works in mysterious way's, doesn't he?
2007-02-01 21:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋