This guy I was seeing doesn't want a proper relationship right now, and I am not gonna force him. But as I know him so well, I feel that he is going to want something with me in the near future and I won't want to be with him, because he didn't want anything then! Is it wrong to feel like that? I am trying to be strong and move on now, and when he does want something I won't be interested or won't be with him whether I like him or not as it is the PRINCIPAL. Am I right? Honest answers please?
2007-02-01 20:57:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be friends with benefits.... and leave it at that..
2007-02-01 21:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in situations like this it's either you wait or you move on. You can't do anything about his decision or the way he feels about you, so now all you can do is make your decision.
Ask yourself, is he worth the wait? Is he worth waiting for really? Can you handle knowing he might be dating other women while you continue to wait for him to maybe realize you're the right one for him?
And besides, there's always the option of seeing other people while you allow him time to mature, your life doesn't have to stop while his goes on.
2007-02-01 21:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound rili hurt....given time you will heal. Dont take it out on him, he obviously has a reason for not wanting a relationship at this time, in the near future you will wonder y u even bothered.
2007-02-01 21:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by ace2ice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just doesn't want to commit to you now as he is basically sampling! Don't ever fool yourself that he will necessarily want to come back to you in future. If he does, it is probably as a f**k-buddy for ol' times sake.
There is most likely (99%) no future for you with this guy.
2007-02-01 21:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Fox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good guy doesn't beat about the bush, a mature one, that is! He either wants you now, or won't want you at all then. If he cannot make up his mind, he's IMMATURE - move on and discover greener pastures.
2007-02-01 21:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sniper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes move on. Decline plitely if he wants a relationship in future. Just be friends.
2007-02-01 21:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to throw away a potentially wonderful relationship so that you can stick to your fantasies about how the world SHOULD be?
2007-02-01 21:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i have to ask you is your name tina??? lol i know it's random but yeah... haha
oh n its not wrong to feel like that
2007-02-01 21:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋