i allways get shy around cool guys and are scared to talk to them in case i get rejected and they dont like me cause when i was in yr 8 i wasi n a popular group and i had a boyfriend and i saiid sumfiin wrong and the girls in the group kicked me out now im too scared to talk to guys since my life is back to normal
2007-02-01 20:29:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start by trying to talk to guys in 1:1 situations. Yes, you're going to get rejected some of the time, but you'll find that you can get over it. Doing it in front of others just adds to the humiliation, so avoid that.
Also, start by taking small steps. Start with smalltalk and work up slowly. Then just relax and be yourself. You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain.
2007-02-01 20:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether you're shy given which you're self huge conscious, terrified of rejection, or don't be attentive to what to declare to interrupt the ice, are all person-friendly emotions in many human beings tremendously while desirous to fulfill somebody new. Getting below the effect of alcohol and sick is a distinctive turn off. i'm hoping you weren't around the guy you like. you're able to desire to locate some casual conversational merchandise to interrupt the ice with. do no longer act like a stupid college woman, that is yet another turn off. have not got somebody else tell him for you the two. as quickly as you attempt to interrupt the ice, the ball is in his palms after that. If he does not respond, flow on!
2016-11-02 02:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you may fear rejection from popular kids cos you experienced it already but start out by saying how are you and then see if you have anything important this year in junior high girls from my old friendship group pushed me away cos i was becoming too popular and i always gave away my feelings by looking sad and letting them win but now when i walk around i saw them they glared and i flashed a genuine smile cos some how over the hols i changed myself to be a confident chick!AND THEY LOOKED SO SURPRISED THAT I SMILED!! i loved that and if you just said a little thing wrong then they werent true friends so show them what kind of a cool chick you are by being nice and confident ansd make sure they know they missed out on such a cool friend!! just go for its not that hard!! show them what you are made of!!
luv ya
nikki
2007-02-01 20:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by ♥nikki♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For every person to move forward in your life is to kick their p[ast and not to think abotu future,......Only then you can enjoy ur present.....don think about that incident and don think about rejections.....
You know in life: -
Past is a history, So dont think about this
Future is a mystery, so dont think about this
Today is agift and thats y it is called PRESENT....
so just enjoy your present and live for today.....
2007-02-01 20:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by summeravi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and be yourself, just remember he is probably nervous too, if he doesn't like you then don't worry about it, that doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you it just means that hes not good enough for you, I'm sure in time you ll find someone when the time is right, just remember its his loss not yours
2007-02-01 20:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to start a new life. maybe you'll do better this time. think of it as if your living your old life. you can do it. =)
2007-02-01 20:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋