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she's friendly, easy going person but hard to understand her mind set. We been going out a few times.

2007-02-01 19:38:40 · 11 answers · asked by Superman 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Don't think she's hard to understand, every woman is hard to understand!
Try to talk as much as you can, continue to go out and you'll undertsand her a little bit better everyday.
When you don't get something, just ask another woman who might help you perceive the woman mind a litlle better!

2007-02-01 19:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-10-16 10:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

well you have to be able to understand her first before you can really know how to win her heart. it takes a time but if you really want her then take the time. for me, i believe it takes sincerity, consistency, and being thoughtful to win a woman's heart. :-)

2007-02-01 19:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by terra 4 · 0 0

does she blush when u are nearby ?
does she enjoy her time with u?
does she talk alot with u?
does she asks alot of quesitons about u?
does she just light up suddenly and get more bubbly?
does she try and steal glances at u?
does she look happy to see u?
does she try to cheer u up when u are really sad?
does she share secrets with u?
does she laugh at ur jokes when they arent even funny?
does she help u regardless of what it is and askes for nothing in return?
If yes then tell her u like her cuz i think she is waiting for u to tell her that and it will instantly win her heart over.....
Good luck!!!!!

2007-02-01 19:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by confused 3 · 1 0

Be honest abt ur feelings towards her and see how she reacts, don't have to be money...it might be a waste if she rejects u. I wouldn't spend much on a girl on first date!

2007-02-01 19:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0 0

Hope ur purse is pretty heavy, then winning any heart is possible.

2007-02-01 19:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by sundeep s 2 · 0 1

Give her things that she like, for example: jewellery .

2007-02-01 19:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Wis 1 · 0 0

just don't get too serious, but take it slow until you understand her...

2007-02-01 19:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0 0

I just copied and pasted from a guy who is expert at relationships....

Don't ask a woman to be her boyfriend. If you are interested in her, your job is to take her out, treat her nice, get to know her, develop that emotional connection with her, hold her hands, kiss her etc., but don't ask to be her bf. Let her be the one to suggest being exclusive with you. Why? Because this way, you are certain she is ready to be committed to
you. If you are the one for her, there will come a point she'll let you know verbally/nonverbally that she just wants to be with you. Until then, get to know her but don't rush her.

It is important to know that a woman will not want to commit to you until she develops that crucial emotional connection with you. That's why it is so important that you spend a lot of quality time getting to know each other. Conversations that stimulate each others' feelings and values will help bring you and her closer together emotionally.

Don't read too much into her behavior. She may let you hold her hands but that doesn't neccesarily mean anything. Do you really think that this thought ran through her head the moment ya'll were holding hands? "I'm gonna let him know I like him by letting him hold my hands." Listen, women behave according to how they feel at the moment and beleive it or not, these moments often don't carry any significant meanings. So, don't equate her behavior to a "meaning" that she likes you.

Success with women requires that you do less thinking and more on feelings. Your behaviors should be based NOT on what you think, but how you feel. Thinking will almost always paralyse you because you are never completely sure of her interest in you, but you are always 100% sure of how YOU feel about her.

Never give women direct questions where they have to choose such as, "will you be my gf?", "What do you want to do now?", "Do you like me?", "Can I kiss you?" Instead, give statements of similar effects such as, "I feel that you are very special person and I'd love to get to know you better." Speak from your feelings will always have a greater impact.

What you want to do right now is create as many opportunities to be with her and get to know her as you can. You want to develop deep rapport with her. Don't ask to be her bf because this will make her feel uncomfortable. Not because she doesn't want to be your gf, but she wants to get to know who you are first. Give her that chance by opening up yourself so that she can get to know you better.

Women want to feel connected to you, they want to feel special. In other words, how you make a woman feel emotionally will determine whether or not there is romance between the two of you. This isn't difficult. Sincerly get to know her and she will begin to feel that connection with you.

You know, women want you to get to know them, they do want to open up to you, it's just that most men don't ask the right questions. Ask her how she feels about things, not what she thinks. Find out what's important to her, her values. What she finds important in her life. What are her dreams and experiences. And you do the same by sharing your stories, values, and experiences with her. This is how connections are made and relationships formed.

Be honest with her about who you are. Don't try to impress by concealing the truth. Don't be afraid to let her know your weaknesses and vulnerabilities because this makes you human. This is what people called, "being yourself".

Let me clarify the statement I made earlier about, "Success with women requires that you do less thinking and more on feelings."

Realise that women do not logically decide to get romantically involved with you. They don't add up all of your wonderful qualities and subtract all of your bad qualities and then make a decision whether or not to be your gf. If this were the case, then nice guys are the ones with the prettiest girls don't you think?

Rather, they decide on how you make them feel. In romance, women process everything that you say and do through an emotional filter. Therefore, it is to your advantage that your actions and words bring about positive emotions from her. In order to do this, the words that you speak and actions you take should truly reflect how you feel. When you do this, you are subcommunicating these same exact feelings to her and as a result, she will begin to feel them.

Understand that when you are communicating with someone, you and that person tend to mirror each other's feelings. When you feel happy, she tends to feel happier around you. If you don't feel well, she feels bad for you. When you feel nervous around her, she senses your nervousness and experiences that same feeling.

Similarly, when you are with the girl you like, you are bound to feel all sort wonderful emotions for her. Success comes from the ability to let your emotions guide your behavior. When you feel a certain emotion and you express it spontaneously without any forethought, she will begin to experience it too. Most guys fail because they think too much about what they should do and say. They fear of screwing up by saying/doing the wrong things. Their minds are filled with "what if she doesn't like this" thoughts and hinder them. From a woman's perspective, what you "think" in your mind can be wrong, but what you "feel" in your heart is never wrong.

2007-02-01 20:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

LISTEN
It takes TIME
LISTEN MORE

2007-02-01 19:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by on_the_move4ever 3 · 1 0

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