I am 25 year guy working in a financial company and i m in love with my friend.she is just 19 years and syudying in T.Y.bsc.i proposed her and she told that we r just friends.Then after that we r still in contact with each other through sms and phone calls. Once for 2-3 days I haven't call her or sms her and she had not eaten anything for that many days and told that don't tell this to her elder sister.And just asked her elder sister about this matter and she came to know that i had asked her sister.After that she stoped talking and smsing me. She told that i don't trust u now. Her elder sister and Mom knows that I have proposed her. Plz Help me.
2007-02-01 19:02:28 · 8 answers · asked by Ajit P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All relationships, including love need a lot of trust & faith in the persons sharing the relationships. You have not been able to keep her faith for the moment and she is angry with you for that.
I do not know what you were upto when you exactly did what you were asked not to...
You must understand that love is not loud & pompous; it has to do with the feelings. Why don't you feel it? She refuses to eat when you do not call her and you still want to know whether she loves you or not!
She is just ninteen and may be she is more matured than you are. She wants to concentrate upon her studies and she does not unnecessarily want to bother her sister & mother at this point of time.
COULD YOU ACT IN A MTURED MANNER, NOW? Go and tell her; you would not make it very pompous & loud. AND STAY SINCERE & HONEST IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
2007-02-01 19:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her sis and mom got known no problem
u first find tht does she likes u?
if u find tht she also likes u
then ask her why she didnt talk with u?
ask her about the problem she had 4 not talking with u
u tell her tht it was urs mistake of not calling her/smsing her
tell her tht u had some problem
so u failed to call her
if she then also doesnt understand u
then she is not perfect 4 ur love
2007-02-01 19:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by coolkavish_001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in cases like this, i would try to forget about her and learn from the mistake i had made so that future relationships would be better
2007-02-01 19:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by FEK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is right.You have to built her confidence once again. do not repeat the same thing in future.
2007-02-01 20:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by agni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep messaging her..dont expect a reply..try to all her atleat once...she loves you alot..
2007-02-02 22:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by ruprekhawati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one she's can't trust u and for two she's not interested in u..................when someone ask u not to speak upon somethin take heed to it
2007-02-01 19:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on, you broke her trust... something to learn from...
2007-02-01 19:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what? you shouldn't have... better of just friends
2007-02-01 19:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by jayanthi s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋