2007-02-01 18:48:09 · 13 answers · asked by Mere Mortal 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well, to be honest: Christians have been trying hard to mentally molest me since I was a kid, but I never really allowed them to hurt me much;) I got used to be discriminated so their bigotry doesn't affect me anymore;)
However, I must add I recently had a very unpleasant experience with a Christian bigot which really disturbed me: was dating this guy, he always knew about me being Atheist, but I didn't know he was such a bigot...I short: one night all his arrogance and bigotry came up to the surface and he really really showed no respect to me at all, he insulted me, demeaned me because I was not a Christian etc etc (funny how Christianity is supposed to be the Faith of Tolerance;)))...It was really HORRIBLE. How did I recover? It takes more than just an arrogant Christian bigot to destroy me;)))))))))))))))) As a matter of fact, after a while I realized that such an empty arrogant blind-folded person couldn't possibly be worth my care and attention, so I recovered right away;)
2007-02-01 19:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well molested is a strong word. I use the word abused because it is unintentional. And yes that is how I was raised. They got me good and I went back and forth between me and them for years and years. Finally at 29 I realized what they were doing.. the control, they guilt, all of it. I recoverd by reading and believe it or not... yahoo answers helped me straighten my thinking out by reading the debates. That is the first time I knew that this was common and I was not alone! I recovered by taking space from my family and physically moving away, even chagned my phone number at one point. i had to learn who I was. Learn my thoughts. Learn my own opinions... not what was right and wrong and acceptable and an abomination... but who I was whether it was right or 'wrong' and accept me. I feel pretty much sane, lol. Sane enough make it in the world without an anxiety attack. So yeah, I'm sane now and i still love my family. They did what they thought was best... and they have learned to not talk about it becasue that pushes me away
2007-02-02 02:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You cannot be molested mentally unless you allow that person to effect your mind. You can walk away from a true christian at any time you do not wish to hear what they have to say. If you have a problem walking away perhaps you are a willing participant and it has more to do with your ego than being a victim.
2007-02-02 02:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yep, by my mother every day when I was growing up. She mentally and physically abused me, yet she still went to church on sundays, read her bible, prayed and claimed she was a good christian.
Yes I am sane, she is still brainwashed.
2007-02-02 06:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't recover it stays with you, especially mentally abuse but both stays with you for a long time
God Bless You
2007-02-02 02:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I was eye-****ed by a girl in a catholic schoolgirl outfit at a bar once.
I felt fine after. I rather enjoyed it!
2007-02-02 03:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Dethruhate 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,most christians don't have enough brain power to hang with me.
2007-02-02 03:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep, by a pentecost. that's a christian cult in asia. I guess I was lucky to have recovered.
2007-02-02 02:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by irumporayar 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
LOL! Nope, never have been, whatever that is.
Why don't you tell us why you hate Christians so much?
2007-02-02 02:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see you didn t recover.
2007-02-02 02:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋