I have never tryed anything before...
2007-02-01 18:32:00 · 10 answers · asked by Gus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
while engaged in a good conversation, tell her you gotta go, gotta run, whatever, but make it seem you have to go but want to continue the conversation, could you call her later? then she will say yes and give you her number if she likes you. the trick is to make sure she feels you are actually interested in what she has to say.
2007-02-01 18:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by prismcat38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea be honest and upfront, she will be so impressed by your boldness she will find it sexy.
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Girl standing somewhere in line, at library, at the mall, coffee shop ......not in conversation....never interupt a girl in a conversation.
B:Hi I'm Arman
G: Hi
B: How is your day going?
G: Good
B: Ok can I just be honest, no games, I saw you and couldn't stop stareing. So since stareing is rude I decided to come by and introduce myself. I notice you are reading......(notice something she is doing or something she may like) ask her some questions.
G: Hopefully responds
B: Look I dont want to take up your time , may I call you sometime. Maybe we can meet at this .........
Something like that , it's late so it's not perfect. Bottom line be bold , be honest, unless you only want her number to do her , then dont be honest. Overall you will shock her from your boldness because all the other guys will be trying "games" avoid the game. Be original.
2007-02-01 18:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by BrownBagFormal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya gotta start by being nice to the girl - be really friendly - thats all flirting is - if you see her looking at you back in a freindly way just ask her if she would ever like to have lunch with you? that way theres no pressure on her even though as males we want more than lunch - however i have found that if you feed a girl she will have a place for you in her heart for caring - something about the magic of good food OR you might find shes not happening for one reason or another and all you wasted is lunch money - move on immediately cause its not worth feeling low cause the first one didnt work out - hopefully there will others ...write her off as a practice run
2007-02-01 18:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by limetemple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about books or movies or something. Then, get her to text you the title of the book/movie/band that she's been telling you about so that 'you don't forget it'. Then she has your number. At the end of the conversation you can say, 'I'm going to check out that book/movie/band, I'm going to give you a call and let you know how I went with it.
This way you have a premise for calling her (aside from the obvious), she will think you have similar interests, and you have something to talk about. I do it all the time when chatting to guys.
2007-02-01 18:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Snow White 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her to agree going out with you, then you have to create a Romantic Connection & Trust & Emotinal Rapport....
In order to have a trust and emotional rapport, you have to be honest.... so speak from your heart..... dont ever lie or be indirect..... communicate with passion and emotion to her that you are geniunily interested in her and you do want to go out with her to find out more... - when u speak from ur heart - she will see it right way and thats how trust and rapport is built....
lastly and most importantly.... romantic connection, through out the time being with her you have to communicate in a way that you know for sure that deep down she likes you & she likes going out with you & you are confident that both of you will have a great time with each other & etc........ -- it's very important to know understnad it doesnt what she says - your belief can shapes the reality, e.g; she says " I am sorry... I am so busy...... I cant...." then you keep communicate in a way that you know deep down she likes you but she just act shy or play hard to get.... you can say "I know you are busy.. and I am busy too.... but I am sure we can find some spare time for seeing each other... I know you miss me a lot so we have to see each other somehow...."... then she start smiling and like you more instantly....
so you see, your belief can create the reality if you choose so..
2007-02-01 19:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk with her for awhile. When I say talk I really mean listen. Woman are incredibly vain and just showing that your really interested in her plays on her vanity. Once you find out what her interests are then say that your also interested in the same thing.
It is human nature to like people that are similiar to ourselves. Then use what ever she is interested in to ask her for her number. For example "We should go rock climbing together sometime, can I get your number?"
2007-02-01 18:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often advise young men to give the girl his number. It makes us feel safer than being asked for our number. While I'm sure you are a normal guy, there are a lot of wack jobs out there. If you give her your number, you are showing that you respect the fact that she might not want to give you her number and you are not pressuring her. If you give her your number, she has the option of calling or not. If she really likes you, she may offer her number when you give her yours.
Good Luck!
2007-02-01 18:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by kiera70 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask her for her phone number so you can ask her out some time. Don't try for cheesy lines. They come off lame anyway. Be yourself.
2007-02-01 18:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her:
Hey there, hi! I've been looking at you from a distance. You seems to be an eye-catcher.. Ummmn.. would you mind if ill ask you your number?
2007-02-01 18:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by aNne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi~! I think you are very beautiful.
*then let the surprise of it catch her
*allow her time to react
what's ur name?
^melissa
Hi, I'm dom, what are u doing?
^meeting some friends for shopping
shopping? u enjoy shopping and going for movies?
^yea i enjoy movies too.
that's great, would u like to go to one with me?
I'll lend you my jacket if it gets cold~
^haha. sure.
great, what's ur number?
2007-02-01 18:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by dommmmmmmmmmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋