girls only......when you say its not the size but how you use it that matters, how do you want us to use it?

Question

can you explain how you want us to use it?

Answer 1

Size does matter, that was a lie created by men with small penises.

Answer 2

Neither of us can explain the right way for YOU to use it. When you get with a girl, you both need to be comfortable enough to be open in sexual discussion. She needs to tell you exactly what to do, how hard she wants it, what position she wants it... she will be the one to tell you how she likes it best. Every woman is different. I've been with my guy for 3 1/2 years and it literally took us 2 1/2 years to figure out the best ways to have sex... and THEN I became a firm believer that IT'S NOT THE SIZE that matters, it's how you use it.

Become comfortable with a woman, and the most important key factor here is: YOU BOTH NEED TO FEEL COMFORTABLE TALKING ABOUT SEX with eachother, and not be afraid or offended when she tells you if you're doing something wrong, because it will be soooo worth it once you get it right!

Answer 3

Okay here's the thing- you can be smaller in size but "know how to use it".
What I mean is that you don't just go at it like a jack-hammer. You can build up the sensations and foreplay and use what you have to bring her to climax.
I've had bigger guys and ... eh. It's not all that great if they just think that they are big, so that's all they need. It's the attention and thought. If they want it faster, do it faster. And the same with slow.
Just read the signs of a woman's body. For the most part, women can tell you (vocally and physically) what they want. Give it to them.

Answer 4

Mostly it is a matter of being an attentive lover. Caring about the needs of your girlfriend/lover, making sure she enjoys your intimacy as much as you do.
And in spite of what people (women) say, size does matter to a degree.
Ever heard the country song "Girls Lie Too" by Terri Clark? All men should listen to it because even though it is a bit tongue in cheek, there is also some truth to it.

Answer 5

Size does matter some, but not the way men interpret it.

I think what is meant by "how you use it" is more a reference to how loving and caring you are in the process, the time that is taken to increase intimacy and affection.

When there is love and tenderness and time and affection ... nature takes over.

Answer 6

Fred , bottom line, be creative , search online on what woman want. Believe it or not women are very sensitive and every touch could send them moaning or screeching to a halt. Tease a woman with it , then work up to the big finally. Men are used to bim bam thank you maam. That won't get you a second round guaranteed. So in summary, proceed slowly, get creative, do your research, tease and work up the main course.

Answer 7

I guess this means mr.willy...if you know what I mean.
I guess you can satisfy a girl as per the current status.
when you are making love you ought to be considerate of the needs of the girl and her preferences.
There are girls that just want to be aroused or fore play.
What I am trying to say is no matter the size do more research to expand on your talents

Answer 8

You want a tip, go to this website, www.liberator.com
They have all kinds of stuff, but you're gonna have to go for a pillow, the smallest one in triangle shape. You buy it and take it with you, put it under the girls butt and there you'll have a HAPPY WOMAN screaming more, more.. hard, hard. oh Yeah!!! Good luck!

Answer 9

Come on man.. I think our rockets can figure it out.. it is all about finding the girl's sweet spot and making her feel real good when your makin love so your not the only one feeling all the pleasure.. you sound like a virgin..

Answer 10

I never said that! Size DOES matter to me! (...and MOST of these OTHER women too, who are lying to you...)