what do i do???

Question

I asked out the girl of my dreams, someone i'd spend the rest of my life with, and she totally rejected me, and i feel like a loser, what do I do?

Answer 1

Forget her. You sound young and you will meet another thousand wanna be wives!

Answer 2

Don't feel so bad about it.
You can't force her to like you or anything.
My advice is that if you want to get over her, try look find the bad things about her (for example, she talks too loud) that you probably wouldn't have noticed before. Like try to look for her imperfections.
Then you won't see that she is so perfect.
It's your mind telling you that she is perfect and the girl of your dreams, and if your mind can do that, then you can also convince yourself that she is the meanest, insensitive girl.
If she knew that you felt this way, but totally rejected you, she probably has no feelings.
There's always bound to be a better girl that fits the role of your perfect girl.
And sometimes girls start to get jealous and likes guys that they can't have.
So get a gf, or start talking to other girls. Ask a girl you know on a casual date or something. When you're talking to her (on instant messenger or on the phone) just suddenly go "oh I have to go" and she'll probably either go "ok bye", but if she actually cares she'll go "ok where are you going?", then you can say "i'm just going to hang out with *whatever the girl's name you asked out*".
Then maybe that might make her jealous and later ask herself why she's feeling this way, then maybe even find out that she has feelings for you.
Good luck

by the way i totally respect the courage you had to ask her out.
if only i could do that.

Answer 3

You shouldn't feel like a loser. You had a lot of guts to ask her out, so you should feel good about that. Women are fickle. They can hate someone one day, and love them the next. If you really want her that badly, be patient and the opportunity might come when she is willing to give you a chance. In the mean time, ask out someone else. She will be more attracted to you if she sees a hot girl on your arm.

Answer 4

We'll I've been there before,it sucks, but think of it like this, and I'm sure you've been told this.Your to good for a person who thinks there better then you.in my case, he had change of heart alittle to late.I took he's reject as a motivation to make make myself even better, and now he wants me,funny right.Cause you never know what you lost until its gone.Good luck

Answer 5

First of all, be proud of the fact that you had the courage to put yourself out on a limb and ask her out. There are countless people in the world who wish that they had that courage.
Second, it's okay. There are countless women in the world and you will find the right one for you. I have honestly believe in the idea that when you stop looking, you will find WHO you are looking for.

Answer 6

Dont worry, you may have thought this was the girl of your dreams but she isnt, the girl of your dreams is someone that loves you as much as love them, dont waste anymore time on someone thats not even thinking of you. be strong & move on.

Answer 7

You can not make some one like you just because you like them. If you could we would not have all the problems that we have.

Answer 8

Show her your not and things might change, but remember you can't make anyone love you.

Answer 9

try and find someone new.. you cant force someone to like you no matter how much you may like them.

Answer 10

Life goes on can't dwell on it if she doesn't want you she doesn't want you wont change.

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