I'm in 10th grade and i like this girl who recently broke-up with her bf. I've been friends with her for about 2 months now and i want to ask her out on a date but i hardly ever see her at school and the only time i talk to her now is online..shes really beautiful and i get a little nervous when i talk to her in person
what should i say and when should i say it?
i really need some good advice
2007-02-01 18:17:03 · 15 answers · asked by :( 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just do it ,suck up your nervousness and just ask her if she says yes its a huge confidence boost if she says no then you allways know that you at least tried
2007-02-01 18:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by JOHN D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talk to her on line you must have some idea of what she likes to do. You could wait for the right moment while you are chatting on line about something you both like then suggest some sort of activity related to it. You don't have to say "date" and it doesn't have to be dinner, movie, etc. Just two friends getting together. She might not want to jump right into that situation when she just broke up and getting together as friends for a mutual activity is 'safer' than a date.
When you go out, be sure to breath normally, this sounds silly but is important because when we're nervous we start to breath shallowly which means we have less oxegen in our brains and are more likely to do something dumb and embarassing. And keep your body relaxed.
2007-02-02 02:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking to her online is PERFECT! That way you don't have to ask her out to her face. This should make it easier for you!
Just ask her if she likes to go to the cinema and watch movies, and if she says YES, then ask her if she wants to go with you to watch a movie. There is a good movie coming out on February 23rd called The Number 23, take her to see it!!
Or you could let her pick the movie she wants to watch(even if it's a chick flick) and have a good time together.
Dinner and a Movie is a perfect date for a first date.
2007-02-02 02:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Daft One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As easy as it is to ask somoene out online, don't do it. You need to talk to her at school, and just ask her what she's doing on so-and-so, and if she says something along the lines of "um, I'm not sure - what are you doing?" - give it to her then. If she says "I'm busy doing so-and-so", you might be out of luck for now, if you are getting good vibes, ask her again later, if you can tell she's not interested, find someone else.
2007-02-02 02:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by aSchway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When chatting with her online, make subtle insinuations about dating or going out together somewhere. Without directly asking her out, you can feel her out to what she may think about daing you. Ask broad questions and once you feel that she will most likely say yes, then you will have the positive feelings and courage to meet her in person and ask her out. I do think asking her on a date in an instant message is not good, not romantic at all buddy. Good luck
2007-02-02 02:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ask her to go for a walk with you or something next time you're talking to her online. just be like "hey [girl's name] if you're not busy friday, we should ..." (I don't know what you like to do, but make sure it's something either really fun or really laid back). do something that doesn't suggest that it's a date, but that gives you time to be together. you're only in high school, so don't worry about formal dates, just hang out and things will happen. if nothing happens, stay friends with her, it'll work out better that way anyway.
2007-02-02 02:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by jesuswasshady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well DO NOT i repeat DO NOT ask her out online it will mean way more in person trust me defiantly ask her in person just try to build up your confidences as mush as possible and hope for the best.
Good Luck! Hope she says yes.
2007-02-02 02:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by nat~nat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have in common? Ask her to do something fun you like to do as well... Also, it's easier if it's a group activity...like, "hey, me and some friends are going to Wendy's for Frosties...wanna go?"
Don't get complicated...get to know her...practice listening to her by using your ears more than your mouth. Relax. Have fun.
2007-02-02 02:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her On-line;its perfect.
ask her first for a hang out ,and later on when you are comfortable for the "DATE" ;ask her.because by then you guys would be comfortable and indirectly you would have been on a date already.
best of luck.God Bless u.
2007-02-02 02:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hrmm im bad at these but try asking her to like a dinner or something and talk until you have the right moment to ask her out
2007-02-02 02:20:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋