Ladies what should I do, I always seem to get my heart broken, I been used and tooken advantage so many times. I have no friends or family members that I trust to talk too. I am broke, sad, and cry alot. I know am not that good-looking and have to tell lies sometimes to get some sex from girls. I am really thinking about killing myself. If you have no love from your family or friends, then you have nothing to live for, so I really wont be hurting anyone because I just dont care...what should I do
2007-02-01 17:29:33 · 25 answers · asked by martykelly755 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont do it, am sorry you feel that way, but death is not the answer....God loves you...have faith
2007-02-02 03:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by captstevenfusmc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call a suicide hot line. You need to realize you are a valuable person and your life has meaning. Otherwise God would not have put you here. Find a church and go talk to the pastor. You can meet some good people in church and you will be accepted. I know someone who was feeling just as you are now. He says talking to the pastor saved his life and his sanity. Someone does care. I do. I'm going to log off this computer now and pray for you. Try to feel the caring coming your way. Good luck to you and remember people really do care.
2007-02-02 01:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to commit your self for treatment of depression. they can help you a lot. There should be no shame in getting some help for yourself. The treat of suicide is reason for anyone to have you committed for help, better to seek it out your self. This will also help you understand why the family and friends are not there for you right now. I know when you get this help, you will feel better about yourself, and there is a very good chance that family and friends will also see the changes and want you in their life again. Do it for your self. You are worth it, and as for as the girls, apparently they are not giving you what you really need, which is love from family and friends. Start now , get some help.
2007-02-02 01:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by m c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you are not ugly; you obviously have had sex and some girlfriends other guys have NEVER have had a girls, good or bad.
And about the lies to have sex, ALL guys do that, and let me tell you; most of the time we let them believe that we believe their lies. So don't feel sorry for you, just try to learn from mistakes don't give your heart to girls that do not deserve it. Learn to recognize what kind of girls are not for you. And there's more in life than sex so concentrate in something else besides girls.
You are luckier than you think, you just start thinking more positively about you. There's only one life, don't waste it thinking about pain. Consentrate about being happy even in the hard times.
2007-02-02 02:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, start looking for girls in the right places. Do not listen to the morons that say you should kill yourself. Some where out there is a perfect match for you. When you stop looking is when they will usually show up. It took me until I was 37 to find the man of my dreams. I have never been happier. Your family and friends...well they are whom you make them. Meaning that a person does not have to be of your blood line to be considered family. Get involved in a class, a sport...something to meet worth while people. Good luck. And remember there is no forgiveness for suicide.
2007-02-02 01:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by christina s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"have to tell lies sometimes to get some sex from girls"
its guys like you give the male population the reputation it has. All you think about is sex. you do not care about the wemon you are with, all you care about is which crevis you can stick it in. untill you can realize this and understand that a relationship with a woman is about having a family an a lifetime bond with another person, you will always have this problem.
if you truly dont care about yourself nor the wellbeing of wemon then just google adult finder, there you can get your fix.
2007-02-02 01:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a mother who is mental a brother and father who committed suicide and two sisters who live with there fathers...i have nobody im not an attractive girl or very smart and i to have thought about suicide but i have a child who i sponsor in another country and i live everyday knowing that those children in less fortunate countries have less than me but more pride and spirit than most people you will walk past. you need to look at the people around you and realize if they only want your company for your image than **** them and trust me there are alot of women out there who are only looking for a honest guy who treats them good and you sound like you can do that...good luck and smile
2007-02-02 01:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by ddmynx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIVE that is what. My heart has been broken so much that all i have left are little bitty pieces that i have to keep gluing together. I don't care what you look like just your talking that way hurts me. You should never lie for sex. You won't be any further ahead by killing yourself your spirit will still be hurting. So LIVE your life to the fullest.
2007-02-02 01:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, you have us. Any time that you feel lonely, just talk to us. You are suffering depression. You probably have a chemical imbalance. Call mental health clinics and get to see a psychologist who can get you on meds to get your body to work properly. I was going home from church a couple of years ago and had my suicide planed out. However, "Thou shalt not kill," came into my mind. God told me that I could not kill myself. I was so upset and hurt with God for telling me that, that I cried for two weeks. God did send me to a psychiatrist and sent me a great social worker to help get my head together. I also was given a new physician who worked with the others. It was only a month or so after that, that my life began again. "Wait on the Lord be of good courage and He shall strengthen your heart. Wait, I say wait on the Lord."
2007-02-02 02:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should change the things in your life your not happy with... you dont like your appearance then do something to change it if you dot feel your friends are offering you the support you need then maybe you should go out there and get new friends... going to new places and talking to new people but I don't recommend you lying. girls like guys who are confident and honest and maybe thats the reason your relationships havent worked out because any relationship that begins in a lie never lasts long... and you need to be more confident in yourself, I've none people who are just hideous but because they're confident and honest, they just have a great personality you end up liking them because it's not all about the physical it also has to do with your personality... who you are as a person.
i know that even though it might not seem like anyone cares about you there are people who do you just dont know it... sometimes we get so caught up in these kinds of feelings that we think nobody really cares about us but they do it's just hard for people to show their emotions at times... it doesnt mean that they dont care maybe you should confront your family about your feelings see what they tell you...
think about the good things don't just focus on the bad because sometimes we get so caught up on feeling bad for ourselves we never see all the good things we have in our lives...
I believe that life is a gift from God and that it would be really ungrateful of you to take your life... Sincerely don't give up so quickly because people have been through worse things and you shouldn't give up so easily... Things might look really bad now like there is no way out but better things will come your way... as everything in life we have our highs and lows and this is your low but it will get better trust me...
Take Care and I hope I was able to help you...
2007-02-02 01:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to the counselors at school and your family doctor so you can get put on some medication that will help you to care! There is a women "out there" for you and when the time is right you will meet her. Don't lie to girls for sex, that is demeaning and will not help you to build any lasting relationships. You need to get out and develop some friendships. Please do not say NO ONE cares, I am sure your parents care - even I care! Good luck!
2007-02-02 01:37:13 · answer #11 · answered by ILOVELUCYFAN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋