my new bf tells me i'm beautiful, so pretty, or gorgeous all the time, and i'm not really complaining but i'm worried that his saying it so often will make him tire of me. Or maybe that he doesn't mean it. My ex bf used to tell me wheni had a nice outfit on and once when i was naked he told me i had a perfect body or something like that..or he told me that he hadn't seen another girl like me, but he didnt tellme everyday.
But my new bf tells me everytime he sees me and he looks at me straight in the eyes when he tells me which is so sweet but i'm just worried.
what do you guys think? Does he really means it? what's the difference between him telling me all the time and my ex not telling me all the time ?
Thanks! serious answers only please
2007-02-01 17:14:59 · 22 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just say Thank You...He may just like you alot...
2007-02-01 17:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is really into. At the same time, that is creepy. I had a guy do that once, and its a total turn off. Once in a while is very sweet and charming but all the time is a bit much and makes you think hes a record player or something. 2 things could happen. He could continue saying it over and over until you are sick of him, or, after a while into the relationship he could stop saying it and then you will start wondering why he doesnt say it anymore
2007-02-02 01:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lynne. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, It may be that this man honestly sees you as beautiful, so relax and enjoy the compliment, and if he does stop telling you how pretty you are every day, it does not mean he doesn't think you are pretty anymore, it may just be that he thinks he finally has impressed upon you how pretty he thinks you are! Smile and relax, and don't spoil the compliment by wondering if he really means it.
2007-02-02 01:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by RP2@AZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just be thankful. He may just be in awe of you that much. Don't bring negative energy (doubt) into your relationship in response to something positive.
I had a boyfriend who did the same thing and wasnt trying to cover anything. Dont let old baggage hang a shadow over the good you new bf does.
2007-02-02 01:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he really does love you, im not sure and do not no how long you been with him. But then again maybe he is unsecure with himself and not much selfasteem about him self. Is he a real good looking guy? I do no what you mean cause my boy friend tells me all the time he loves me. and sometimes I do get tired of hearing it. But then again I guess if he never told me I would probably be wondering why.
2007-02-02 01:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by babycakes3557 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ur lucky! Ur new bf probably really thinks u are gorgeous and wants to make sure u know it. U shouldn't act like this is a bad thing! Just because ur ex probably didn't appreciate u as much as he should have; he didn't compliment u as much.
2007-02-02 01:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by NDC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your new bf just appreciates what he has! Men show emotions and feelings in very different ways and maybe one bf is just more subtle about it. Nothing to worry about mine tells me a lot also but he means it and I know this so I have no worries that it will end his desire for me.
2007-02-02 01:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be he is simply that impressed by your looks. Or it could be that you have expressed some low self esteem about your looks and he cares enough to try to support you. Or it could be that he is worried about losing you to someone who appreciates you more and so he wants to make sure you know how he feels about you.
There are a lot of possibilities but they are all good. Smile, say "Thank you, Sweetie" and enjoy it.
2007-02-02 01:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wise men of the past have said to beward the flattering tongue. He may be buttering you up because he wants something. Then again, he may just be doing that to more securely keep you.
2007-02-02 01:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u know how buys are these days sooo horny & stuff maybe he just wants to wit u sum night and do something special maybe.....but then agian he must really love u i know how annoying it is i had a bf like that but he wasn;t hiddin anythin of not tellin me truth he realli did love me but thats all ova now wit me & him........sooo just dnt worry
2007-02-02 01:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your new fresh of the kitchen bf is trying to score some brownie points to have sex with you.
and idk if i can agree with your ex bf about you having a perfect body. show me a naked picture of you and i'll tell you. ahhahahahhaha jk!
2007-02-02 01:21:01 · answer #11 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋