I know for a fact that by the age of 4 years I would get aroused by my underpants. Not old or used underpants, but brand new pairs, not just mens but all kinds. It makes me sick that it still effects me to this day, 30 years later. Why????? Will it ever stop???
2007-02-01 16:58:56 · 2 answers · asked by Robert D 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Not to offend you, but is there any chance of abuse when you were that age? The mind will block out trama, but the fetish could be presenting itself in a way that continues to block out bad memories. As long as its not making you a public hazard, I wouldnt think its a bad fetish to have. But the fact it makes you uncomfortable makes it worth dealing with. If you have never seen a shrink, may be a good idea. Dont know if ur religious, but trust me, seeing a religion based shrink is usually for the best. At least thats what I have found, they seem to not be as judgmental and more focused on cure vs medication, depending on which is appropriate of course. Hope this helps...
2007-02-02 01:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by Alley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar fetish but it's with wet clothing. I've had it since 4 or 5 too. I sometimes wish it would stop but I've learned to live with it and make the best of it. As long as you aren't harming anyone or anything, just go with it. Don't let it get out of hand to the point where you're getting yourself in trouble with the law though! Just always remember there are much worse fetishes you could have! I'm almost 35 and I've come to the realization that there's no 'cure' and you just have to make the best of it and learn to accept it as a part of life.
2007-02-03 03:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋