I don't like shallow people what so ever but I want to here were other people are coming from. I am very open minded so say what ever you want.
2007-02-01 16:32:05 · 18 answers · asked by blackglitter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. sex appeal
2. personality
3. looks
confused?
2007-02-01 16:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by The Don 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks are what we notice FIRST. All else is secondary.. Contrary to popular beliefe (actualy not beliefe. no one believes that in toto and as an absolute) Looks do count... If you cant hook us initially it dosent really matter.. BUT I will admit.. different people find different types physically attractive..
If this makes me shallow So be it.. I can easily live with that...
(fer instance.. I'm not partial to blondes.. dosent matter really how pretty or supermodilish they are.. The blonde factor is something i have to actually work to get over.. Black hair? almost instant atraction)
2007-02-01 16:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To care about the physical appearances isn't shallow -- shallow is placing the physical above all. Obviously, I can find lots of girls to be attractive, but for me to truly come to care for them we need to connect on a personality level.
2007-02-01 16:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by parrotsandgrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are definately a factor, but personality is the more important of the two. If a girl has a nice personality, it's okay for her to have average looks. It's the outright ugly ones who get ignored.
2007-02-01 16:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it would really be on looks.
Mainly because that is what make them stand out.
We all have different taste's.
Personality would be something we would really want a girl to have. That is what keeps us with them longer, and if its really what we see ourself spending the rest of our life with then its great.
As for me....all I want is a girl that I can see myself waking up to everyday in the morning, and also a woman in the street but a freak in the bed.
I hope this helps
2007-02-01 16:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks.
Personality can change according to moods and circumstances changing in a person's life from day to day and hour to hour.
But looks don't change except slowly as a person ages over years and years.
2007-02-01 16:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by David Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. Of course looks attract guys, but the personality keeps us from going anywhere.
2007-02-01 16:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks at the beginning. Personality at the end. You got to admit that you have to look nice and clean enough for people to approach you :-)
2007-02-01 16:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by mee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admit to "preferring" a lady who can smile.... and laugh. - I have known many ladies on both-sides of the "attractive" scale, but the ones who garnered my attention are those who smile with an "opening"-type smile; the smile that becons my attention.
And ONE CRUCIAL PERSONALITY FACTOR that "turns me on" is her ability to empathise. <-This is usually presented in (her) first few words. - You can "see" how a person feels about a situation by how they respond and how they instigate conversations.
2007-02-01 16:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are first since it makes us guys care for knowing a chicks personality.
2007-02-01 16:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by Simran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to be shallow, yet i flow for looks first. after I've made my mind-set, i interact in a verbal substitute to confirm how her personality is like. if she passes my attempt, then i will keep on i flow for lovable, pleasing females are...too a lot hardship
2016-12-03 08:33:00 · answer #11 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋