I am in love (i know and i have been told i am), recentley the girl i like has been hanging out with my best friend more than me (and we dont date) and i think they might date. I have asked the girl out before and she never gave me a yes or no just a i dont know. well the 3 of us work togeather and we are going to this concert and going to stay in a motel in chicago and im thinking about asking her out again but im not shure if she is ready for a long term relationship. either way this situation could be bad. if her and my friend get togeather it will crush me at work (and everyday). if i ask her out and she says no it will be weird for about a month between us again. if she says yes GREAT, except what if my friend likes her. and if i do nothing then i keep all this bottled up. so can i get some suggestions please? if only for me to read to keep my mind off it. sorry if i have bad speling.
2007-02-01 16:24:14 · 8 answers · asked by Trio Fan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Waiting is a good thing.
2007-02-01 16:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask her out and if she says no let them go alone or back out anyway. Yes love crushes you i could talk to you all night about how it crushes you but then again it probably would not do you any good. Don't worry about your spelling just find a way to get your mind off of it. If you want to cry and let it all out. It is o.k. Everything will be alright. I have been crushed a lot in my life but i guess that is just life and i will not let it beat me Don't you either.
2007-02-01 16:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to ask her out! You'll never know the answer and how does she feels about you unless you take action. Don't mind your friend's side. Remember girls are human, should pay respect to them. They do have feelings, not a product that can trade or give to others. Let them decide between you and your friend. The decision's in her hand, not yours to decide whether to give it up for your friend or not. If she likes you, great; if she chooses him, then forget about it. There's nothing you can do.
Good luck on your next dating with her!!
2007-02-01 16:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by tictac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself. If feels ya', then she'll come around. If not, don't worry about it; It won't be the end of the world. Trust me, I can relate to this. Sometimes these things worrk the way they do because it serves a purpose behind it. Real love will come when the time is right, it may not come when we wish it to but it'll come. Hang in there.^^
2007-02-01 16:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man to be honest with u, its better that u let ur boy have the girl but only if u are true friends if not go for it til the end. but having conflicts over a girl in stupid so if it doesnt work with that girl. dont worry the world is full of them.
2007-02-01 16:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by OOOYEA! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh you should def tell your friend first how you feel so that he wont make a move!!
Then talk to her, be a man! Tell her you would like to take her out and have a good time!
Good Luck!
2007-02-01 16:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She already knows how u feel, theres nothing u can do from here. The only thing u can do is wait for to make her decision, but it seems like she already did.
2007-02-01 16:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your best friend how you feel and if he feels the same than,just drop it. Which would you rather have the friend or the girl. if the friend dosen't like her(which i dought) then ask her out again and tell her everything
2007-02-01 16:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋