well there is this guy who i'm madly in love with , without him knowing about what i feel , and he's kinda in love with my best friend who have been playing with his feeling for a long time telling him that she loves him and she want to be married to him .. but she doesn't , anyway the truth came out and now he knows the fact ,,
recently i've been having some phone calls from him , so i fainally asked him about the reson and he said that he doesn't see any thing wrong with that and that he wants us to be friends but in fact i want us to be more than that ,,i don't think he's over her yet and i don't know if he will or not ,, how can i get her out of his mind and gane his love??? help me
2007-02-01 16:20:35 · 6 answers · asked by fo6a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do know that doing this, you are probably going to loose your best friend... do you want that? If thats the case, then you just need to be a friend to him for awhile, and let him work through this the way he needs to.. be there for him, and when hes ready to move on, take the chance and let him know how you feel. Good luck!
2007-02-01 16:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do right now while he's healing is to be his friend. Talk to him as often as you can. Show him how considerate you can be by doing little things, like maybe making him a cd or a card, sending texts every so often telling him you hope he has a good day. Give him time, and when he's ready to get out there again, then make your feelings known.
2007-02-01 16:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in a losing battle that the only person that will get hurt is
you. it bad to love someone that does not love you back.. you
just need to move on. he may never feel as you do and for right
now he has to deal with his feeling for the other girl. you need
to find someone that will love you and only have you in his heart
and not someone else.
2007-02-01 16:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be his friend. Hang out with him and if he is interested in you, he will make a move.
2007-02-01 16:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him notice you, but if he doesn,t see you like anyhting other than a friend, he might try to get close to you to either make her jelous or get more closer to her, if she's your best friend, tell her
2007-02-01 16:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by electricbluerocker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant chica!...girls are always in mind.
2007-02-01 16:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by OOOYEA! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋