Do you believe if someone is meant to be in your life, you will run into him or her spontaneously and things will just happen when they're meant to, or is it better to go after a person more aggressively to not let them get away? What if there are two and you're not sure which is the right one?
2007-02-01 16:11:34 · 10 answers · asked by mj_indigo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To the person who thinks I'm cheating, that's not what I meant! Why would I be worried about running into someone by fate if I was already humping him?! Jeez. Ok I like two guys and I know them both pretty well but we're not dating.
2007-02-01 16:21:52 · update #1
Good question. In every other activity in life we dont leave things to fate. When you buy a house you research & try & get the best deal. Schools, colleges you check out to see if they are the right one for you....but when it comes to finding our life partner we are all more or less clueless & it is a v imp aspect of your life determining your future happiness. Hope you get your answer by & by.
2007-02-01 16:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Praxis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe someone is meant to be in your life and you will run into him/her.
however, I do believe you have to put yourself out there so that you have more opportunites to allow that person to come into your life.
If you keep doing the same thing everyday, you limit your likelyhood in running into that right person.
If you have met two people, thats a little harder to answer (i understand what thats like.. and I still havent figured it out.)
It would seem to be that its highly possible that both are meant to be important in your life, but fate may give you only one intimate relationship, because it just works out that way.
That part is the hard one.
It certainly sucks when years down the road you start to ask "what if I would tried to make it work with guy #2, what would have happened?"
That is pretty hard to deal with sometimes, but if the man you ultimately end up with, is a great guy and you love him, then you should be happy, regardless on what you may have missed with the other guy.
2007-02-02 00:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in fate. I went to school with my husband (grade school) he went in the afternoon I went in the morning. Never met. Later we found out his sister was friends with a guy later dated in high school. We cruised the same area in high school, I even remember his truck, never met. We have friends in common, never met. He went into the navy and I went to college. After getting fired from a job( for stealing which I did not do!!!!!!!!) I went back to work at a grocery store while I finished my degree. He was also working there while going to school after the navy. We finally met after each one of us was done with the partying and were ready to settle down. That was 12 yrs ago. The longer we know each other the more we find we just missed meeting each other.
2007-02-02 00:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Our fate we make our self, but i would say that it takes the effort to make your fate. If there are two and your undecided, you need to stop cheating and make a choice. You could end up without both. Good Luck.
2007-02-02 00:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit of both, I think. It'll be much easier if you and the person you like are feeling the same way towards each other, but if you just limit to yourself to thinking if they love me they'll come to me, you're knocking down everyone that doesn't know about you. So get yourself out there, but be patient too.
2007-02-02 00:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jeremy A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think both. You cant sit at home and trust fate to bring love to your door step. Help it out a little. Meet fate half way
2007-02-02 00:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
an excellent question, indeed. i kind of think it's a combination of both. you can do some things to put yourself in the right situation for finding good men and from there it might be a matter of fate to make you find which one of those men is the right one for you.
2007-02-02 00:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think both. You should make your effort to attract a fate guy
2007-02-02 00:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by MIB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fate hun!
2007-02-02 00:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, efford is run by faith to work simuoltaneously
2007-02-02 00:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by electricbluerocker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋