i am currently dating a sophmore and i qam a freshman in highschool. she constantly trys to make me jealous. she just doesn't stop. and on top of that, she wants me to get her pregnant so we can have children. i dont want to have sex before marrage...
what do you think?
2007-02-01 16:05:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just say NO if you are not ready for a baby..and if you dont want to have sex before marriage dont let her pressure you into it, if she really did care about you ,and if she wasnt only looking for sex and sex only , and if she respected you,she would understand and wait until your ready...but if she doesnt want to wait until your ready,then she doesnt have much respect for you as you thought, she sounds very manipulative a controling and also tricky...but is your choice...and choose smart and carefully, good luck ..do the right thing (wich would be to make her wait till your ready or let her go !)
2007-02-01 16:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize that you have your whole life ahead of you, don't let an immature, selfish girl goad you into ruining the best years of your life by trying to play head games with you.
You sound mature enough to realize that sex is not what makes a relationship work, neither do babies. You really do not need to be a father at your age, you have some maturing yet to do and you don't need to be saddled with a child or a childish girlfriend. Get out of that relationship as fast and graceful as you can, better yet the next time she flirts with another guy to make you jealous, just smile and say that they were made for each other and head out the door!
Most importantly sex these days can be deadly, I know it's hard to believe, but man does not have to have sex in order to survive, so save it for the woman your going to marry, it will be that much more intense and will be so much more meaningful!!
2007-02-01 16:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by RP2@AZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get a life and that you don't want to have kids. I'm sure there are tons of guys that WANT to have sex with her let them do the gross work. I'ma freshmen too and I think that is really cool to hear a guy use his voice and say that. I really respect that about you and I hope you stick to it. There is going to be a girl and she is going to feel so honored because you saved yourself for her. honestly don't be ashamed of it. It's oging to be worth it. I'm a virgin too and it's hard sometimes when you could just have fun but that one time of fun could determine (or ruin) the rest of your life. Anyways I'm just soo blown away. Keep it up and let me know how it goes.
2007-02-01 16:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably not much you can do as far as she is concerned. However, you can take care of yourself. Any girl that WANTS to get pregnant at that age needs more help than you can provide. The best thing would be to talk to a guidance counselor.
2007-02-01 16:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by stacia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go she is not thinking of your future or hers for that matter. In order for the 2 of you to make she has to respect your wishes. Try to talk to her first and if that doesnt work then you need to make a decision on wether or not you think she is worth you going against what you believe in.
2007-02-01 16:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are way to nice of a guy to put up with that,but before you break up with her try talking first if she dosent get it then I would defenatly break up with her, you deserve better.Im sorry your In this situation,and I hope I was a help.Good Luck.
2007-02-01 16:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by 2jackweedm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should drop this girl like a hot potato. Seriously, she's a manipulative young woman who is trying to get pregnant. Stay away.
2007-02-01 16:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you both are way too young to be thinking about babies!! it sounds to me like you are more mature than she is, even though she is older. move on to someone more your maturity level.
2007-02-01 16:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Coolltw2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds weird... do you really love her?? If yes then tell her your saving yourself.
2007-02-01 16:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is testing your boundaries. Let her know where they are.
2007-02-01 16:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by Voxygen8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋