i used to trust them b4,but when they told others about my secrets,i just don't feel good about it,all the good things i've done to them and they went behind my back,don't know what to do,should i pay them back?
2007-02-01 15:41:56 · 11 answers · asked by fiji wannababe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
there is nothing good about eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth. Forgiving someone after they have betrayed you is hard but if you are a good person then know that what they did to you they did it not to you but to God. Then you should be careful of who you share your secrets with because people cannot keep secrets that is why if you have a secret tell it to yourself. Not by writing it down in a journal because people can find that stuff.but go into somewhere where no one can find you and hold a conversation with yourself not answer yourself but just talk about your thoughts outloud and evaluate yourself. judge yourself because if you tell others you have to worry about what they are thinking and if they are going to judge you or not. so your worst critic can be yourself and if that does not work for you then you have to go to someone who will not judge you or give you their opinion but just listen to you. But if i were you i would forgive them and learn from my mistake and not tell them anything ever again because one thing about us humans we can never tell the same thing to someone else the same way we either add to or take from. But you can never be too trusting of anyone especially with your secrets. So just forgive them and move on it will be alright
2007-02-01 16:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by finderofthering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
paying them back is not the right thing to do. by doing so you are bringing youself down to their level. just remember you are the greater person and don't tell them anything that you don't want the world to know or trust them anymore. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-01 15:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paying them back won't make anything better. I would just remember not to trust them anymore.
2007-02-01 15:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paying them back isn't the right thing to do but it will bring you sweet sweet revenge and thats better than anything, i would know. Well any way good luck.
2007-02-01 16:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
funds isn't in basic terms some thing u throw around, they artwork difficult for that funds and u only wasted all of it on your self and did not difficulty approximately them, it grew to become into very egocentric. and of course if u lied approximately some thing, thats one reason..i dont even opt to waste my time in this, yet another words...your dumb sorry
2016-09-28 07:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by kelchner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get even and then tell them see how it feel to have someone miss lead you and lie , sneak behimd your back krama is a ***** what goes around comes around even if you dont stoop to there level its going to come back and bit them in the ***
2007-02-01 15:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by DIAMOND 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to them in a french accent and say I spit in your face Pitooey pitooey
2007-02-01 15:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not pay them back. Leave everything to God.
2007-02-01 20:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope you dn't pay them back. they are family just be learning a lesson don't tell something you dont' want told. period.
2007-02-01 15:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not worth it, don't upset your self anymore. Just don't tell them anything you don't want everyone to know. when and if they ask you why you don't tell them anything anymore tell them why,
2007-02-01 16:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋