I've been going out with this guy for about 7 months and we've had some rough times but we can always work it out. In science our class was always fooling around so we had to get assigned seats and i got seated next to this guy. and so after about 2 months of sitting with him in the front it was time to change seats again, but theres a twist, i got moved two desks back next to the same guy. i sorta have feelings for him i think but not enought to really even do anything about it. is it bad to maybe have feelings for someone? i dont even really know if i totally like him it could just be that he flirts a lot with me but who knows, any pointers?
2007-02-01 15:39:38 · 7 answers · asked by Mad D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I know the grass is never greener on the other side of the fence.
Whatever you decide is your affair but you need to tie up loose ends before jumping in to the arms of a flirt.
And if he flirts with you it may only be his novelty.
Beware of wolves in sheep's wool.
On other hand- If to quick to get rid of your boyfriend just because you have hit a bump in the road,
"Tells me your failing in Science class and you suck at relationships.
2007-02-01 15:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad news for you my friend... life is always going to be like this. You will always meet other people who are going to be more attractive than your current man, or make you feel special like your man did when you first started dating. You'll wonder if you've found someone better and maybe you should trade up.
The bottom line is that you need to date a lot of men. Dump your current guy and try this new one out. Because until you have hit a lot of both highs and lows, you will not know what it is you truly are looking for in a relationship. And it's then that you can say to a guy, "You know, I've dated a lot of guys, and you are the one I want."
2007-02-01 23:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by Quagmire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself are you sure about you and your boyfriend? It is natural for people to be attracted to someone else even if you are attatched i mean of course are all human beings with eyes ...
you said "i dont evenr eally know if i totally like him" but you do like him or you wouldnt be asking such question.
So secondly ask yourself how much do u like this guy? Is it possible for you two to ever go out? is he a realistic guy for you? WOuld u break up with ur current bf to be with htis guy? would this guy be with you?
think before you act! u might regret..
2007-02-01 23:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have feelings for him your just in lust. I mean if you find your self talking with him about being together than maybe but if y'all just playing around and talking about meanless stuff. Than its just casual flirting. Stick to your boyfriend because if you haven't heard of this saying I'm going to tell you again: don't leave the person you love for the person you like because in the end the person you like is going to leave you for someone he likes.
2007-02-01 23:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by Snoopy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with ur bf n not think of getting with someone who js flirts wf ya ok .. it'll pass like an infatuation. & no dont sleep a few times wif him 'like wad cauli said .. luv yourself n be sure of yur feelings .
2007-02-01 23:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by Songbird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with him a few times. I'm sure it'll work. If you didn't enjoy it, well, he's obviously not a keeper, now is he?
2007-02-01 23:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by Cauli F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that you and your bf dont really have a strong relationship anymore,, seeing that your looking at other guys.
2007-02-01 23:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by twistedloves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋